Saturday 9 October 2010

Love and Obstacles

Cynthia Nixon and family

October 4, 2010

This past weekend, the New Yorker held its annual festival, which -- as always -- includes a multitude of speakers and panels discussing a variety of topics. Top players in all professions were represented, including Stephen King, Malcolm Gladwell, Jake Gyllenhaal and Regina Spektor -- all chatting about themselves and their areas of expertise. Our favorite, though, would have to have been Cynthia Nixon on the panel discussion "Love and Obstacles: The Case for Gay Marriage."

Ms. Nixon, who is most known for her role has Miranda Hobbes in Sex and the City, and now is engaged to education activist Christine Marinoni, stole our hearts with her rather calm, well made argument. Not only does she make a good case, she makes an example of how to make said point.

“Gay people who want to marry have no desire to redefine marriage in any way. When women got the vote, they did not redefine voting. When African-Americans got the right to sit at a lunch counter alongside white people, they did not redefine eating out. They were simply invited to the table. And that is all we want to do. We have no desire to change marriage. We want to be entitled to not only the same privileges, but the same responsibilities as straight people.”

Source: Out Hero: The Cynthia Nixon Edition

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Anonymous said...

Those are supposedly her own experiences, which she is entitled to use however she wishes.

Anonymous said...

She's not hurting anyone's bankable image either, she's probably helping. :)

Anonymous said...

Those are supposedly her own experiences, which she is entitled to use however she wishes.

Yes, I know that. I'm not making a legal comparison of the two things.

Anonymous said...

It's not the same - and unless the vid co is planning on distributing the porno for free (just for the benefit of society of course) then they can be challenged. Plus, you can't use the "work" without permission.

It'll be interesting to see what happens. Can't be the first time porno has delved into something like this - and as sleazy as they are, I'm sure they have lawyers, too, lol. Anyone remember Larry Flynt and Jerry Falwell? That was about an offensive parody and Flynt won at the U.S. Supreme Court.

Anonymous said...

What a bunch of middle-aged prudes, this isn't the first time celebs were expoited in this way. I doubt that disney nor anyone else is going to do anything, why give more attention to the sleeze.

They will make the dvd, sell online and so what?
Wasn't there BBM porno parodies?

Anonymous said...

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_dyPwMVtrHbU/SZ7AareFtEI/AAAAAAAAAHc/AQmaZnZzvNQ/s1600-h/Bareback.jpg

Anonymous said...

Yeah, I don't think Disney would bother with this crap, either. The more fuss you make, the more publicity there is. Much ado about nothing anyway - not like someone's going to think it's the real people in the porno.

Anonymous said...

But again, that's an actual work they are parodying. I'm sure someone is going to worry about a small blog giving them attention. All they will care about is if there is a market for it, if there isn't, they won't make it.

Anonymous said...

Spoiling your fun, 1:21, or Jack? Why don't you go out and get laid for real instead of relying on porn. lol

Anonymous said...

—Jake Gyllenhaal speaks at the “Love and Other Drugs” press conference about reuniting with Anne Hathaway, and how having a history with her made it easier to do the difficult and often naked scenes in the flick. We know he’s pretending to date Taylor Swift and she has some kind of boring boyfriend, but are we alone in wanting these two to get together in real life?

LOL, now some JiG believers ship Anne and Jake too? Now that's an accomplishment. ;)

full quote

Anonymous said...

I don't think you have to be JiG believer to see that he's pretending to date Taylor Swift for PR purposes :)

Anonymous said...

I don't think you have to be JiG believer to see that he's pretending to date Taylor Swift for PR purposes :)

Seriously now, why would a straight/bi Jake Gyllenhaal who is good looking and has an interesting personality and money pretend to be dating someone? Why doesn't he get himself a regular, nice woman to date her for real?
IF he is straight/bi then he's a weird young guy.

Ted said...


Is the Blue Valentine Poster as NC-17 as the Flick?


If you think we're obsessed with all things Blue Valentine, you're right. We love us some Ryan Gosling goodness, but like we've said: The movie is damn good. And if it doesn't get some Oscar lovin' (considering all that NC-17 BS), it'll be a crime.

Which is why we were très thrilled when the movie poster hit the web today. And sure, it's sexy—it's got über-hot Ry and Michelle Williams on it, after all—but is it as sexy as its NC-17 rating?

Kind of!

Because, as you'll remember, it isn't sex that scored this flick it's pseudo X-rating. And that's why the poster perfectly encompasses the dark and gritty sexiness of the flick.

No nudity necessary—'cause there's practically no nudity in the movie, either. Is this the weirdest ratings dissing ever, or what?

Hell, if you compare the Valentine poster to what's selling our other fave flick, Love and Other Drugs, you'd think Jake Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway's coitus-interruptus moment would be the adults-only feature hitting theaters (not that we're complaining about seeing the oh-so-delish Jakey G's abs, tush and just about everything else).

This Valentine poster says it all: It's sweet, but it's real. Just look under the title: "A Love Story." And guess what? They mean it.

True love isn't rated PG-13. And this flick is honest about that, which is exactly why it deserves to steal some shiny trophies come award season—heck, it even says that on the poster:

"If there's any justice, Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams will both earn Oscar nominations," boasts a critic.

Also, if there's any justice, this movie will get the R-rating it deserves when the filmmakers appeal. If only so more folks will be able to actually see a good movie instead of the latest blockbuster pabulum to hit theaters.

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday, Leo Di Caprio!!!

At least your beards are good looking :)

Anonymous said...

If there's any justice, Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams will both earn Oscar nominations," boasts a critic.

They will get nods and the NC-17 rating will intrigue more people. They'll leave LAOD far behind critically and maybe b.o. wise. No worries, Teddy boy. ;)

Anonymous said...

Seriously now, why would a straight/bi Jake Gyllenhaal who is good looking and has an interesting personality and money pretend to be dating someone? Why doesn't he get himself a regular, nice woman to date her for real?
IF he is straight/bi then he's a weird young guy.


Well, I don't believe he's a straight/bi guy pretending to date her. I believe he's a closeted gay guy pretending to date her. But I have read some things where people have indicated they think it's a publicity stunt on both their parts - her for the album and him for his movie because the timing is just too convenient. Of course, they could be saying that because they don't want to believe he's gay, but they just don't buy that they're dating, lol.

Anonymous said...

At least your beards are good looking :)

Leo's beautiful, blonde models sure are hot. He likes em young too, but at least, as I mentioned, they are hot. And sexy.

Anonymous said...

They'll leave LAOD far behind critically and maybe b.o. wise.

Critically, yes. I can't see BV beating LAOD at the box office, though. LAOD is much more commercial and conventional. I imagine it'll be playing in more theaters, too.

Anonymous said...

Leo's beautiful, blonde models sure are hot. He likes em young too, but at least, as I mentioned, they are hot. And sexy.

They sure are. They might be young, but they are women, not girls.

Anonymous said...

stunt on both their parts - her for the album

Her album would have sold over a million with or without Jake.

Anonymous said...

TS isn't selling because she's very talented, she's selling because she has great marketing and PR team - of course she needs and wants publicity, how many popular gay men she needs to "date" for you to see something so obvious?

Anonymous said...

One question about Taylor Swift, I'm not a fan of her's and only heard of her thanks to that Kayne West incident. Does she claim like Britney Spears back in the day that she's still a virgin despite dating those previous guys?

Anonymous said...

TS isn't selling because she's very talented, she's selling because she has great marketing and PR team - of course she needs and wants publicity, how many popular gay men she needs to "date" for you to see something so obvious?

THIS. Every single move this girl and her team make is calculated for optimum PR. She is as packaged and manufactured as they come.

Anonymous said...

Does she claim like Britney Spears back in the day that she's still a virgin despite dating those previous guys?

Good question, idk. Not a fan of her either. All I know is that commercial for her album plays constantly and I have to hit the remote immediately because it's really annoying.

Anonymous said...

I like Anne, but I don't like the drug rumors surrounding her.

Jake said...

“In a way, I think it made it easier—going through the journey of not only making [‘Brokeback Mounatin’] but then the response of the audiences brought us all very close. That’s a very tight-knit group that remains so to this day.

Aww. Nice to hear that he's tight with his Brokeback girlies. ;)

Anonymous said...

^^This implies that he was tight with Heath too when he was alive. ;)

Anonymous said...

He was tight with Heath my ass.

What Jake says during promotional work should be taken with a BIG grain of salt, all that's coming out of his mouth is steaming pile of PR crap.

Anonymous said...

Jake is talking to public ONLY during promotional work - just like 99% of actors.

Anonymous said...

So, everything Jake says in public is a lie. IDK. Maybe.

Anonymous said...

6:14 PM, the majority of actors don't change their tune depending on what movie they're promoting, like Jake does.

Anonymous said...

Why would Jake lie about dead person? What kind of person would do that for a bit of publicity? Why would anyone presume that Jake's capable of being scum like that?

Anonymous said...

I don't think he is lying but everything he says during promo is pre-approved by the movie's PR people. So, basically he is not necessary telling lies but i'm sure he would shut up if PR thinks the Heath talk is bad for business.

Jake saying stuff about his dead former co-star seems to have the OK for the LAOD PR agents.

Anonymous said...

Why would Jake lie about dead person?

Jake loves PR, friendship with the late great Heath Ledger blah blah is good PR. Jake lied about attending Heath's memorial so.

Anonymous said...

Bullshit. I'm sure Jake's PR thinks that talking about the chin would be good for business, but Jake didn't do it.

Anonymous said...

Great post from Ted re Blue Valentine. I can't wait to see it. The poster is very hot because it's real looking.

Anonymous said...

Jake lied about attending Heath's memorial so.

You are in no position to know something like that, cut the crap.

Anonymous said...

Stop playing stupid, you know he lied.

Anonymous said...

I'm sure Jake's PR thinks that talking about the chin would be good for business

I'm not a part of the Heath fight going on - but aside from all that, I don't think PR wanted Jake to talk about Reese, just like they don't want him to talk about Taylor. Staying silent is a much smarter tactic - gives the illusion that he doesn't want attention drawn to it, makes him seem "gentlemanly", it saves him from questions that he genuinely doesn't want to answer, and the less you say, the less chance you have of screwing up. All they have to do is make sure they're spotted, feed tabloids b.s. they can run with, and sit back.

Anonymous said...

Jake saying stuff about his dead former co-star seems to have the OK for the LAOD PR agents.

Of course. Isn't LAOD the child of BBM (whose lead was Heath) according to Jake? Jake& PR want the brokies to go see it.

Anonymous said...

The opinion of Jake Gyllenhaal on this blog is very low. There are no fans posting, just a few perhaps. It's more a hate blog, it truly is.

Anonymous said...

I don't think PR wanted Jake to talk about Reese, just like they don't want him to talk about Taylor.

Of course they do, that would be easy straight PR, Jake can't screw anything up - fangirls are stupid, general public doesn't pay attention to details.

Anonymous said...

^^There are many James Franco appreciation sites, maybe some should rethink following Jake and start following a closeted gay actor who they're fans of. Who does everything right. Why waste energy on an actor you don't respect and like? I don't get it.

Anonymous said...

Stop playing stupid, you know he lied.

That's your wishful thinking. Jake didn't lie about liking and respecting Heath.

Anonymous said...

The opinion of Jake Gyllenhaal on this blog is very low.

Take it up with Jake. The opinions on here are in accordance to his actions and PR bullshit.

Anonymous said...

This is definitely turining into a "I hate Jake" blog. If you think he's such a pile of crap, why do you care about him anymore?

Anonymous said...

7:02 PM - never tell other people what they should feel.

Anonymous said...

Jake didn't lie about liking and respecting Heath.

Maybe he did, maybe he didn't. Although he couldn't have respected him much considering he didn't put Reeke and his PR aside for a few days after Heath died.

Anonymous said...

Some people use work to help them forget, has nothing to do with respect.

Anonymous said...

"I'm sure Jake's PR thinks that talking about the chin would be good for business, but Jake didn't do it."

The official story is that Jake got dumped by a divorced middle agemothe rof two because she though he wasn't good enough for her.
I don't think that's great PR when Jake is promoting a movie based on what a hot philander he is.

Anonymous said...

Jake pretending to be straight is good PR. Jake talking about his "girlfriends" is straight PR = good PR.

Anonymous said...

Of course they do, that would be easy straight PR, Jake can't screw anything up

So you're saying they want him to talk, and he's refusing?

Anonymous said...

I'm saying that Jake has a mind of his own and PR works for him - they don't tell him what to do, they just advise him.

Anonymous said...

I'm saying that Jake has a mind of his own and PR works for him - they don't tell him what to do, they just advise him.

I agree with that, I just don't think they want him to talk about his beards. I disagree that it would be good PR. It looks much classier to stay above the gossip and not look as though you're feeding it.

Anonymous said...

I don't believe Reese would be very happy if she is mentioned by Jake.I bet the bearding contract forbides (sp?) Jake of making any comment about her now

Anonymous said...

The chin was happy to talk about their "relationship", she would be happy if Jake provided more good PR for her.

Anonymous said...

It looks much classier to stay above the gossip and not look as though you're feeding it.

GOSSIP??? What gossip, they were selling an important "relationship", he wouldn't address gossip.

Anonymous said...

Jake is looking gayer and gayer right now by this whole Taylor thing.
Reese must be thanking God for her new contract with Jim Toth. I think she just wants to pretend the Jake-era never happened. It was good to save face after Ryan dumping her but now, I think Reese is terrified that people may think that she was just one of the beards too.

Anonymous said...

they were selling an important "relationship"

All they're trying to sell is that he's straight. They're happy to let the tabloids speculate away and give him lots of publicity, which is exactly what they're doing. Nothing more to be gained by talking.

Anonymous said...

Nothing more to be gained by talking.

There is - more straight publicity.

Anonymous said...

Is PoP franchise dead for good? Maybe they are thinking of giving it a second chance, hince the heavy bearding after all this time long

Anonymous said...

I think PoP franchise is history.

Anonymous said...

Jakes lack of interest in any females was becoming conspicuous. They had to hook him up with somebody especially while he is trying to sell himself as a romantic lead in LAOD. PR made another bad choice as usual. No surprise there. Why would they suddenly get smart now. But it will be a lot easier to walk away from this one. Careers and age difference are easy outs. Short shelf life planned from the get go. I dont watch hard core porn but I may make an exception this time. Will
Jakes character be called toothy.

Anonymous said...

Interview:

Anne's got the giggles

Anonymous said...

Why would they suddenly get smart now.

PR can be replaced, I hoped that Jake will learn from his mistakes.

Anonymous said...

"There are many James Franco appreciation sites, maybe some should rethink following Jake and start following a closeted gay actor who they're fans of. Who does everything right."

Franco surely does not everything right and I was surprised that he even adressed the rumours of being gay.

The difference is that he does not allow himself being tabloid fodder and selling a "straight" image by "dating" a 20 year teenage like girl.

This is why am I so disappointed with Jake - on the one hand he refuses to talk about Ms Swift because he is such a "private" person, on the other hand he has no problems with being tabloid fodder. And don´t tell me the stories are not PR improved.

Anonymous said...

Maybe PoP failure and lack of new project put Jake in panic mode.

Anonymous said...

I'd panic too if my career went as Jake's right now. What bad luck he had the last few years with his movie projects. It sucks.

Anonymous said...

November 11 - Jake At The 'Harry Potter' Premiere In London

Anonymous said...

'Love & Other Drugs' Press Conference - New York City

Anonymous said...

Happy birthday to the beautiful, funny and lovable Anne Hathaway.

Anonymous said...

WOW! Happy birthday Anne! :)
Jake?

Jake said...

Jake?

What?

Anonymous said...

Nothing more to be gained by talking.
There is - more straight publicity.


I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on that :)

Anonymous said...

ITA, 5:24PM. Jake (and his people) are feeding the tabloids with one hand and pretending to be above it all with the other.

Jakey G. said...

If I were into women, I'd give Annie her deserved and promised birthday present. ;)

Anne said...

*Cheap bitch!*

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday Anne, and a belated Happy Birthday to Leo! :)

Anonymous said...

Maybe the best present Anne could get would be some good reviews for LAOD - not just her performance but for the movie. Hope she gets them :)

Anonymous said...

Maybe the best present Anne could get would be some good reviews for LAOD - not just her performance but for the movie. Hope she gets them :)

Me too. :)

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday, Ryan Gosling!

I can't believe this is the Young Hercules guy!!! That killed any rest of hotness I could ever find on him

Anonymous said...

Gosling and Anne have birthday on the same day? Funny. :)

Atticus said...

*Cheap bitch!*

Tell me about it! I'm hungry!

Uh Oh, Jaustinites, cover your eyes said...


Blind Vice: Toothy Tile's Back to Dangerous Sex!


It's really gotten to be one of the most vicious, Catch-22 romantic situations in Hollywood: poor Toothy Tile's love life. Last we heard, Tinseltown's most notoriously closeted actor last gave his fake-beard ways another whirl—and not in the classiest of ways, either.

Hmmm. Wonder if that chick-patrolling Toothy was up to could be a habit he picked up...

While cruising for guys in West Hollywood? In dark, public places? We think this just might be an affirmative assumption on our part!

Only because not only do old habits die hard (Toothy loves doing it anyplace except a bed, remember?), but it's clear Tooth's recently amped-up, PR chick-dating has made him hungrier than usual for his natural inclination: dudes.

Near the Sunset Strip, Tooth was recently standing not that far from a popular gay club. He was by himself, in the alley in between two darkly lit buildings. A super-cute guy a little younger than Mr. Tile walked by. The young brown-haired guy knew the drill: If he was interested, turn back around. Which he did.

Very nervously, he went up to Toothy, knowing exactly who he was. Toothy replied, "Hey."

"Hey," responded cute boy, barely audible. The wholesome-looking dude added, "How's...it going?"

"Great," said Toothy, who moved further back into the blackness of the alley, somewhere near the—gasp!—trash bins. He placed one hand on his growing crotch, which was not insignificant at this point.

Toothy's man-choice for the night reluctantly took one step toward Toothy, and then he stepped back. It wasn't so much that he had a boyfriend at home he was thinking about, but it was more so the faint smell of eau de refuse that was making him hesitate. He just couldn't go through with it.

He bolted, practically hitting himself the whole way home.

And yes, this really did happen. All 18 tales of our Toothy archives have indeed gone down. As it were.

Anonymous said...

^^

Ridiculous.

Anonymous said...

Is there still anyone who seriously believes Ted? It reads like a fanfic to me.

Anonymous said...

^^^ it really does.

Anonymous said...

This is a game, I think. Ted wants people to believe Jake is this TT (does he exist?) obviously. Maybe Jake is involved too? Maybe both want to have a ball with some fans?

Anonymous said...

LOL it really does - somebody from the slash community must be on E!'s payroll, or should be. It doesn't have Ted's usual verve either, is he on vacation? PG, are you moonlightin? ;)

12:20 PM said...

We all know Jake likes attention. Maybe he and Ted have that in common?

Anonymous said...

So where does this leave Family Tile? *shrugs*

Anonymous said...

So where does this leave Family Tile? *shrugs*

There is no family Tile. Jake isn't hiding babies. Only delusional BT believers buy every nonsense Ted sells.

Anonymous said...

That has to be the worst fan fic ever!! And how come th "dude" ran to Ted with his tale and not the NE or some other rag???

ted and his interns obviously don't care anymore, he claims that TT is still with his BF and has a kid and then he posts this fiction and conviently forgets about TT's family, LOL!!

Notice he mentions TT archives? Now we all know that the audience for this fiction is small so why does he continue?

My guess is that what's left of thr TT audience have saved e-mail correspondence with Ted dating back to 2006 that would prove that they have been feeding him "tips" and he is afraid of the exposure.

It's Ok Ted, you won't go to jail it's just embarrassing!

The TT fans/OMG'ers know Ted is full of shit because they are the ones feeding him the fiction but they are too embarrased to admit it on their blog!

Anonymous said...

No mention of TT and the strippers, that was in the previous chapter!!

Anonymous said...

There were no strippers nor is this story true. Get a clue!

Anonymous said...

I'm not saying Jake is not gay, I'm just saying Ted is pulling crap out of his ass. Always has, always will.

Anonymous said...

On another note, I just read where Anne H or Naomi Watts are being considered for a role in Batman 3 - I like the idea of Naomi because of her connnection to Heath, I know it doesn't make sense. :)

Anonymous said...

Ted and his interns need to hire better writers. I'm sure the OMG posters will spin this, LOL!!

Anonymous said...

On another note, I just read where Anne H or Naomi Watts are being considered for a role in Batman 3 - I like the idea of Naomi because of her connnection to Heath, I know it doesn't make sense. :)

That's interesting! I'd be fine with either actress. :)

Anonymous said...

I'm sure y'all will throw stones and ridicule me, so go ahead, I don't care. I'm not saying the latest BI is true and I'm not trying to convince anyone it is - but I don't find it "ridiculous" or beyond the realm of possibility. I guess it all depends on everyone's personal experiences and what they've done in their own RL. I've done some outrageous and risky stuff (well, by some people's standards) that people who think they "know" me would never believe in a million years. And if I wrote it, I guess it would be called "fan fiction" too. So while I don't believe in BT or that J&A are a fairy tale couple, this latest BV item doesn't sound unbelievable to me.

Anonymous said...

I love how people who claim they don't believe there is a TT hang out at this blog, lol. It's all bullshit, but they hang on every word! :D

Anonymous said...

So while I don't believe in BT or that J&A are a fairy tale couple, this latest BV item doesn't sound unbelievable to me.

What do you mean with "fairy tale couple"? Happy couple? Do you believe they are still together? If so, why does he need to hide in a hidden alley to get a b.j. by a stranger? Isn't this what his supposed bf is there for?

Anonymous said...

What do you mean with "fairy tale couple"? Happy couple? Do you believe they are still together? If so, why does he need to hide in a hidden alley to get a b.j. by a stranger? Isn't this what his supposed bf is there for?

jfc, calm down! LOL. You're acting like this is "Meet the Press." Talk about jumping to conclusions. No, I don't believe J&A are together as a couple at all. Probably were at one time, long ago, but not anymore and not for a long time. And I don't believe there is any kid. Okay? Geez.

Anonymous said...

I love how people who claim they don't believe there is a TT hang out at this blog, lol. It's all bullshit, but they hang on every word! :D

There are posters like me who post almost from the very start, but use their brain and don't buy everything Ted wants to sell.
I'm not saying Jake isn't gay, but that Ted's TT loses credibility by day.

Anonymous said...

jfc, calm down! LOL. You're acting like this is "Meet the Press." Talk about jumping to conclusions. No, I don't believe J&A are together as a couple at all. Probably were at one time, long ago, but not anymore and not for a long time. And I don't believe there is any kid. Okay? Geez.

Sorry, if I made the impression I was shouting. FYI, I actually share your opinion.

12:55PM said...

There are posters like me who post almost from the very start, but use their brain and don't buy everything Ted wants to sell.


I don't buy everything Ted sells either. In my post I specifically said I don't believe in BT or that J&A are a couple. But I also use my brain and my life experiences and my knowledge of certain things that go on in the world and so I don't automatically have a knee-jerk "Ted is full of shit" response to everything he writes. I'm not trying to convince you, but I have a brain, too :)

Anonymous said...

12:55 PM, I bet the most outrageous thing you've ever done is wearing high heals while attending church.

Jake is gay, but he is in no way hiding a kid. Plus, even if he is doing all the stuff Ted says he is doing, there is no way either Ted is able to know about it.

Basically, Ted is using a believable fact: Jake being gay to write bad pornish fiction.
Is not a wrong thing, it's business. The fact that grownes up people believes is all tru is what is scaring. No wonder middle America can be convinced of everything...

Anonymous said...

Toothy Tile, Gay Prostitute

Anonymous said...

LOL!!!

Anonymous said...

That's interesting! I'd be fine with either actress. :)

Me too. :)

About Ted's latest - I don't see how you can pick and choose which stories to believe. If this one sounds farfetched, which it does, how can you not question any of the TT gossip? :(

Anonymous said...

The scenario isn't farfetched - it's just the context and the way it's written that does. JMO.

Anonymous said...

If this is true (??), then Jake REALLY has to be more careful in the future when it comes to hookups. He's lucky that guy ran off rather than stab Jake or god knows what else.

Anonymous said...

12:55 PM, I bet the most outrageous thing you've ever done is wearing high heals while attending church.

You know what, this is what pisses me off. This fucking know-it-all condescending attitude. You don't know shit about me, or what I've done, so take your attitude somewhere else. If you'd bother to read, I said I didn't believe there was a kid, so I don't know why you're throwing that in there. But that's the basic reply to throw back at anyone to try and ridicule anything they say you don't like. I don't know why every discussion has to turn into something hostile and condescending.

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Anonymous said...

Toothy's man-choice for the night reluctantly took one step toward Toothy, and then he stepped back. It wasn't so much that he had a boyfriend at home he was thinking about, but it was more so the faint smell of eau de refuse that was making him hesitate. He just couldn't go through with it.

Awww, poor Jake :)

Anonymous said...

but it was more so the faint smell of eau de refuse that was making him hesitate.

Please explain what exactly this sentence means for non English native speakers.

non English native speaker 2 said...

That's not English, that's Ted-talk. :)

Anonymous said...

Jake's pickup got repelled by the smell of garbage around them.

Anonymous said...

Thanks 3:40 PM. Some people are too choosy! ;)

Anonymous said...

Gyllenhaal and Hathaway talk tushies

Anonymous said...

Jake's pickup got repelled by the smell of garbage around them.

Thanks 3:40 PM.

Anonymous said...

Watching all the vids it's apparent Anne loves Jake a lot as a friend. I even noticed that years ago during BBM promo. She was always protective of him. Jake was too much into the friendship with Heath and Michelle at the time. The three of them used to ignore Anne oftentimes, probably unconsciously. Jake didn't even mention her in his thank speech at the BAFTAs. It's nice that he seems to appreciate Anne more now as a friend. :)

Weekend #3 in London? said...

Taylor Swift is due to perform at BBC's Radio Teen Award Show... so if Jake hasn't left London expect some PR approved sightings!

Anonymous said...

^^YAY!!!

J/K of course. ;)

destiny said...

The TT fans/OMG'ers know Ted is full of shit because they are the ones feeding him the fiction but they are too embarrased to admit it on their blog!

OMG'ers are feeding Ted stories about pickups in smelly alleys? LOL!

As with any story like this, no way of knowing for sure, but it wouldn't surprise me. I think the fact that Jake likes to be bearded up with blonde virginal sweetheart types--i.e, kind of sexless--is a bit twisted in its own way, and I wouldn't be surprised if goes along with this whole darker side.

It's like the Larry Craigs and other deeply closeted men of the world, the one's with wives and these "clean" public images who then pick up men in public places. But usually those men are the deep in denial types. Don't know whether Jake is in that category or not, but wouldn't surprise me.

If these latest BV stories from Ted are true, then I can't help but think Jake is in a very dark place, and regressing rather than growing.

Anonymous said...

Teen Award Show...

If Jake has a shred of dignity or self-respect left, he has to hate himself for this Swifty thing. Teen Awards? Really? The guy's 30. I said this before, but he looks even wimpier than he did with Reese and that's hard to accomplish.

Anonymous said...

As with any story like this, no way of knowing for sure, but it wouldn't surprise me.

It wouldn't surprise me either. Everyone has a dark side, and being closeted has to take its toll. It has to. I also agree about the blonde, "America's sweetheart" beards. Definitely a type there and it's not by accident. I'm not a Jaustinte, but even I can see that OMGers wouldn't "feed" Ted stuff like this. Some of the OMGers like to think of J&A as a devoted couple, and this flies in the face of that. There is someone or maybe a couple of people who are obsessed with OMG and keep trying to drag them into everything and they also keep trying to talk shit about them here.

Anonymous said...

blonde, "America's sweetheart"

Kiki, Reese W., Taylor S.. Except for Jenny Lewis (but that was way before the blonde America's sweetheart days)

Anonymous said...

blonde, "America's sweetheart"

Kiki, Reese W., Taylor S.. Except for Jenny Lewis (but that was way before the blonde America's sweetheart days)

Anonymous said...

So did Jake want that guy to blow him or was that going to precede the screwing? I'm not well versed in outside gay club cruising/pickup code.

Pretty stupid if he really did this. He could have gotten into serious trouble.

Anonymous said...

^he wanted a blow job.

Anonymous said...

Jenny Lewis is the typical Hipster's Sweetheart.

Anonymous said...

Jenny Lewis is the typical Hipster's Sweetheart.

Anonymous said...

What's next? He's going to pick up guys in bathrooms--Larry Craig style?

Anonymous said...

I don't believe this story is true.

Anonymous said...

There is someone or maybe a couple of people who are obsessed with OMG and keep trying to drag them into everything and they also keep trying to talk shit about them here.

There are a couple of OMG'ers who come here talking shit too, and if they are going to dish it out, they should expect to get some in return. Blaming others for their own paranoid delusions, and are equally, if not more so, obsessed. Their posts speak for themselves, I think.

Anonymous said...

I don't recall OMG'ers coming here to talk shit about WFT2, but if they did--at least they came here and did it to the "face" of whoever it was they were talking to. They didn't run to another blog and trash them behind their backs.

Anonymous said...

More likely a hand job; remember the item about the rent boy, implying that was what happened? It would be the safest.

Anonymous said...

Star Shrinking: Jake Gyllenhaal and Taylor Swift

New rumored celebrity couple Jake Gyllenhaal and Taylor Swift have been mentioned all over the place lately. Considering he’s about a decade older than her, it appears their tabloid romance has been moving pretty slowly. This week, it came out that Jake didn’t bring Taylor to the premiere of his new movie Love And Other Drugs because he wasn’t ready for her to see him naked.

If you’re supposedly dating someone who you think is too young to see your R rated movie, maybe she’s too young to be dating at all? Just a thought we’ve been having. So we decided to bring this question and others to our favorite psychotherapist – Dr. Gilda Carle.

Jake Gyllenhaal notably upped his public persona a few years ago through his relationship to America’s Sweetheart Reese Witherspoon. But Reese finally kicked Jake to the curb. And Dr. Gilda thinks that Taylor might actually be more in his league:

“Reese was right on the money – if she said he wasn’t serious enough. Well, he found someone with his mentality.”

But to us, it seems like an odd pairing. So we asked Dr. Gilda what the appeal is. As she says:

“It makes good headlines in the news, but eventually, what are they going to be doing, playing dominoes together?”

Maybe it’s just a publicity thing. But that could be dangerous too:

“I always caution my celebrity clients about getting involved with someone who’s intentions are not obvious to you.”

With a big movie out, it could just be good publicity for Jake to be seen dating a young hot chic right now. And Taylor may not realize that. Says Dr. Gilda:

“I just worry about her. She’s young and impressionable. And beside all that, she doesn’t have the experience that somebody older has. In knowing when someone is after her fame, money, hooking on to her wagon. All the therapy in the world can’t give you that. It’s just time. And, unfortunately being hurt. And that’s too bad.”

At least she can always write a song about him for her next album….

Crushable

Anonymous said...

If Jake wanted a hand job, he could pay for it via an escort not at some seedy alley behind some bar. Unless he wants to be causght, if so word would be out about his behavior like Travolta.

So Ted is full of shit

Anonymous said...

BS, 5:59. You can see some of their posts today, and not using their so-called "real names". You can recognize the venom anywhere. :)

They got proof about Larry Craig's behavior, not proof by assertion either. One of the giveaways is "barely audible". Who would report like that? It does sound like fanfic.

Anonymous said...

Word is out--someone blabbed to Ted. I don't think Ted is full of shit. I think Ted knows a lot of men in the HW gay community, and they talk to him. Ted isn[t' going to run something based on some anon he knows nothing about. Had to be someone he knows, or a friend of a friend. Maybe he even got confirmation from someone else who saw him hanging around.

The only reason we know about Travolta is from all of the blind items about him--and now, what, 30 years later, a book and NE stories that explicitly name him. Doesn't mean all those earlier blind item stories were shit about Travolta.

Anonymous said...

I can't see the posts attacking WFT that are from OMG'ers today. Can you tell me which ones by time? In fact I don't see any attacking WFT.

Anonymous said...

It's very sad that some have lives that are so empty, that they have nothing better to do than sleaze up someone else's, or spend their time speculating about it like busybodies with nothing else to think about. Before you ask why I follow the TT gossip, following gossip is one thing; creating it is something else.

Anonymous said...

No, 6:31.

Anonymous said...

6:32 PM, please stop trashing babblers, UV will kick your ass!

Anonymous said...

6:32 PM #1, please stop trashing babblers, UV will kick your ass!

Anonymous said...

^^The militant TT believers are just as bad as the babblers. lol

Anonymous said...

Worse, they make UV look like an angel. lol

Anonymous said...

Jake is gay, deal with that.

Anonymous said...

Nobody's arguing that point - that's what you need to realize.

There are some good people over at OMG, so I don't mean to trash it. But lately, it's become obvious to many who the instigators and troublemakers are. Just read the posts. :)

Anonymous said...

Bullshit, Ted hasn't gotten "credible" info about TT in years, BT proves that.

I file this piece of fanfic under TT and the strippers he was supposedly fooling around with to prove a point. Funny no one has heard about him going to these places.

The reckless and risky behavior of asking strangers to suck your dick in a smelly alley near a gay club would have gotten out beyond Ted's "sources".

Travolta's behavior has been documented not only via BI but people actually saying it and leading one Spa in Palm springs from banning him for his gross behavior.

No one but Ted is reporting this behavior but it is repeated on other gossip sites which is different from gossip about Travolta, Crusie, Clooney, Leo, etc and I don't include posters on the DL because even I posted crap on there pretending to be a gay man in HW in the know.

Anonymous said...

Yes NETB, we all know you love to come here and trash OMG.

Anonymous said...

Who the fuck is NETB?

Anonymous said...

Destiny, would you like to answer this one?

Anonymous said...

6:30, I think you're right. This is speculation but I'm guessing that what MAY have happend is that one of Ted's friends read Jake uber I am straight declarations at this recent LaOD press conference--the one Ted went to in which Jake said that he and Heath were acting whereas with he and Anne-well that was real (oh really, does her bf know?). I think Ted's friend read that and blew a gasket because he knew about this story in the alley--maybe it involved a good friend of his. And then he called Ted..who probably got in touch with friend.

Just speculation.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...
Is PoP franchise dead for good? Maybe they are thinking of giving it a second chance, hince the heavy bearding after all this time long



No way in hell this has anything to do with PoP. Right now it is convenient press for both Jake and Taylor. A new album for Taylor and a new movie for Jake. It is all about getting your face on the rag mags. This won't last long. Talyor is way too busy.

Anonymous said...

Nobody told ted anything, he has no sources. This reads like really bad fanfic, like the stripper story.

The fangirls that send him his "tips" and are his "sources" are getting worse and worse.

A gay man would be posting this on gay blogs not running to Ted, such bull shit.

Anonymous said...

eau de refuse - sounds like Tom of Olay

Anonymous said...

Would not be surprised if Ted knows the guy who walked away. He had to be awfully sure of that story to publish it. Good points re Jakes dark side. Someone under all that pressure to stay closeted and sneaking around just to see the man he loves has to be on the verge of coming unraveled. Hes been a good boy for a long time now. There has to be an outlet for that pressure and public sex is it.

Anonymous said...

Love and Other Drugs / Red Band Trailer

http://www.break.com/movie-trailers/love-and-other-drugs-red-band-trailer-1952198

Looks much better than the original one.

Ted has lost me a long time ago - I don´t think he has any inside information anymore.

And to me it makes zero sense that someone who tries to establish a "straight" image so bad would be that stupid to hook on stranger outside a gay club.

For someone with money there are other possibilities....

"I file this piece of fanfic under TT and the strippers he was supposedly fooling around with to prove a point. Funny no one has heard about him going to these places."

I completely forgot about this "story".

With the exception of some people at OMG and here are there people who really believe this?

Drunk on Ted's kool-aid said...

I do *burp*

Anonymous said...

What drives Toothy to risky public sex is the thrill of getting caught. It's not the sex in itself. It's a compensation for being deeply closeted.

It's not about seeking sex with a guy. Of course he has the power to hire a rent boy and have sex in private, but he wants to put himself at risk of being caught.

The thrill and the risk of sex in public places is what turns him on. Picking a random guy in the street is not about the sex, but the adrenaline in the risk of the possibility of being caught.

Anonymous said...

I think I'm in the minority not liking the new red band trailer. Anne may be award worthy, but the wishy washy genre may hinder her chances of getting nominated.
Jake is pretty in the movie though.

Anonymous said...

^^I predict very, very mixed reviews.

Anonymous said...

Now I get some critics' problem with LAOD. It's a sex comedy mixed with drama. One early reviewer called it disgusting. The imdb rating is slowly falling. I'll still check it out. :)

Anonymous said...

ONTD new trailer reactions:
ontd.

Anonymous said...

Huh? Red Band Trailer with no sex???

Anonymous said...

And to me it makes zero sense that someone who tries to establish a "straight" image so bad would be that stupid to hook on stranger outside a gay club.

Just the opposite, strong public "straight" image makes it easier not to worry about gay hookups.

Anonymous said...

But that's where you're wrong - Jake knows he doesn't have a strong straight public image. Just the opposite in fact. He's not about to reinforce public perception.

Anonymous said...

You are wrong, his showmances were / are very much present in ALL media, I'm talking about majority - general public and fangirls.

Anonymous said...

Exactly and that whole fanfic Ted wrote is so cheesey and tacky it sounds like it was written by someoen who doesn't know anything, they get their views on gay sex from watching gay porn.

That's what fangirls that write slash do, it doesn't even sound like Ted.

He can hook-up via escorts, not a sleezy alley near a gay bar where evryone can see which makes this even more bs because there would be stories floating all over about it.

Stop trying to make Ted's latest sound real just because you know that he has been full of shit for year.

Anonymous said...

it sounds like it was written by someoen who doesn't know anything, they get their views on gay sex from watching gay porn

Nonsense, you are extremal ignorant about gay men and gay sex.

Anonymous said...

It really doesn't have Ted's usual sparkle and wit, I have to say. It must have been amateur submissions day at E!? It does read like slash.

I think Blue Valentine is going to be more my speed. :(

Anonymous said...

It does read like slash.

What do you mean by that? Have you ever hear / read real gay men talking about sex?

Anonymous said...

Uh, yes?

LaOD is funny I guess, but in a stunning kind of way. lol

Anonymous said...

Uh, yes?

So what is wrong / off with Ted's description?

Anonymous said...

I'm sure the scenario is right, in fact I know it is (not from personal experience). But the way it's written is terrible. I was once at a gay bar with friends and as we were leaving, I turned to see were two women going at it in an alley. On my first visit of many to SF, I saw two women passionately kissing. I must always notice the ladies. *shrugs* Note to E: if you're going to use this as a BV, I want a percentage! :)

Anonymous said...

I'm a gay man so yes, I have. I'm also a Brokie that have read (not written) slash, most of which is written by straight women. Most of it is bad and I know for a fact that a lot of the straight women watch gay porn for "inspiration".

The porn is not an accurate portrayal of gay sex just like straight porn isn't an accurate portrayal of straight sex.

And while there are gay men into reckless, unsafe and irresponsible sexual behavior described by what I would assmue is one of Ted's interns, there are just as many that aren't including myself and I resent people just painting everyone with the same brush, I find it ignorant and homophobic.

I find the behavior neither normal, hot but sad, - desperate and full of self-loathing.

The dialog between TT and the dude is just plain laughable, did the dude, Ted's "source" actually use those quotes? And what a coincidence that he ran away so not to complete th act, much easier to write the fiction w/o mentioning the sex act in the alley, someone else could ahev seen it, oh boy.

Anonymous said...

The dialog between TT and the dude is just plain laughable.

This is what I thought to, melodrama, or what, I can't describe what's off about it.

Anonymous said...

The whole TT saga has been off for years.

Anonymous said...

I find the behavior neither normal, hot but sad, - desperate and full of self-loathing.

Causal gay sex is sad, desperate and full of self-loathing? Now THAT's ignorant and homophobic.

Anonymous said...

"barely audible" just about did me in. It's almost like it's written in the first person narrative or something.

Anonymous said...

I'm not 9:37, and I don't think casual sex is wrong, bad or anything negative. However, it's not for everyone, and you can't say it's true about all gay men. Several gay couples (male) I know have been together for up to 25 years, so they must have been together as younger guys. Whatever their personal arrangments are, I wouldn't know. All I know is that they are in long-term relationships. Straight people you can't generalize about either.

Anonymous said...

The BV also has a very strong poor man's substitute for when Jack Twist went to Mexico vibe about it. I guess that's what makes it sound like fic.

Anonymous said...

9:37: It is meant for people to think that it was in a first person narrative, that's what writers do isn't it? And although I don't consider slash writers legit, they write in the same matter. Ted knows all about fan fiction he has mentioend it more than once.

9:37 What the fan fiction Ted's intern wrote isn't what I would consider casual, casual to me is when you meet someone at a clu or elsewhere, you click and then you go off and have sex, no string attached.

What was posted in the alley sounds like prostitution, the only thing missing was TT offering the dude $$ to suck his dick. The story would have been better if he offered to go to a hotel or the back seat of a car.

But that's me, if you get off doing that or reading about it that's your business. Also, how many gay -bashings have taken place in such scenerios?

HIV is still a major problem un the gay community ut it's no longer the "in" thing to talk about anymore.

Anonymous said...

However, it's not for everyone, and you can't say it's true about all gay men.

No one said not implied that ALL gay men love or practice causal sex.

Anonymous said...

What was posted in the alley sounds like prostitution, the only thing missing was TT offering the dude $$ to suck his dick.

Bullshit.

Anonymous said...

Yes they did, 9:59.

Anonymous said...

No one said not implied that ALL gay men love or practice causal sex.
Yes they did, 9:59.


Re-post if such comment exist.

Anonymous said...

If Hugh Grant hadn't been caught, and if a BV had been written about him getting a bj from the hooker, people would say the same thing - why would a rich, good looking celeb with a beautiful girlfriend do something like that? It sounds made up! No way would he do something so risky! He could hire a call girl, he'd never stoop so low!

Because everyone knows the scenario described is not far-fetched and happens all the time, they're grasping at "how" it is written to try and say it couldn't possibly be true. I'm not saying that it happened, but it can't be dismissed out of hand either. Entirely plausible, but it clashes with a lot of perceptions that people want to hang on to.

Anonymous said...

10:30 AM is right.

Anonymous said...

Go back to your fanfic fangirl, Hugh Grant was going to pay a hooker for a BJ, TT according to Ted's source was hanging in some filthy alley of some gay club lurking waiting for some random dude to suck his dick for free.

He should have written that TT wanted to pay the dude, what if the guy was a gay basher and beat the shit out of TT? Or is he that desperate and self-laoting that he didn't care.

Jake has $$$ to pay for services, remember the BV about the confidential agreement? If you believe that tale then that sounds like $$$ was exchanged, usually is.

And don't for get those female strippers, they charge too!

You are the one grasping on homophobic bullshit: gay men suck and fuck 24/7, don't care when or where and will risk getting STD and getting beat up or killed to get a thrill.

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Anonymous said...

Yes, but Jake isn't Hugh Grant, and they actually had real events, names and the woman coming forward to tell her story directly, not not a crappy melodramatic BV.

Anonymous said...

10:52 AM - under which rock do you live? Have you ever met a gay man?

Anonymous said...

I personally dismiss everything out of hand if there are no facts to back them up. Puns not intended.

Anonymous said...

Yes, but Jake isn't Hugh Grant, and they actually had real events, names and the woman coming forward to tell her story directly, not not a crappy melodramatic BV.

Are you missing the point by purpose? I think you do, lol.
The point is - you wouldn't believe that Hugh Grant is capable of doing something like that, just like you don't believe Jake would have casula sex with strangers.

Anonymous said...

They made the BV sound like the dude was a "wholesome", young inexperienced guy who wasn't used to it and couldn't go through with it and ran off, and that TT is the "old hand" at it. :( All of these BVs are so obviously perused from online fic, not just the TT ones.

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