Saturday, 9 October 2010
Love and Obstacles
October 4, 2010
This past weekend, the New Yorker held its annual festival, which -- as always -- includes a multitude of speakers and panels discussing a variety of topics. Top players in all professions were represented, including Stephen King, Malcolm Gladwell, Jake Gyllenhaal and Regina Spektor -- all chatting about themselves and their areas of expertise. Our favorite, though, would have to have been Cynthia Nixon on the panel discussion "Love and Obstacles: The Case for Gay Marriage."
Ms. Nixon, who is most known for her role has Miranda Hobbes in Sex and the City, and now is engaged to education activist Christine Marinoni, stole our hearts with her rather calm, well made argument. Not only does she make a good case, she makes an example of how to make said point.
“Gay people who want to marry have no desire to redefine marriage in any way. When women got the vote, they did not redefine voting. When African-Americans got the right to sit at a lunch counter alongside white people, they did not redefine eating out. They were simply invited to the table. And that is all we want to do. We have no desire to change marriage. We want to be entitled to not only the same privileges, but the same responsibilities as straight people.”
Source: Out Hero: The Cynthia Nixon Edition
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«Oldest ‹Older 1401 – 1600 of 3894 Newer› Newest»I happen to think Jake is a in the closet bisexual, so I don't think it would be a problem dating a young pretty girl on occassions. But I would think he would not want to deal with another celeb.
Same.
I don't think it would be a problem dating a young pretty girl on occassions
Based on what? When did Jake date a young pretty girl?
Drunksty?
Drunksty, more than 5 years ago, same time he was dating Austin.
Hollywood family would never support Jake having a secret kid and risking being outed.
Whut?! HW people are the phoniest assholes and the biggest fucking liars in the USA, second only to the politicians.
LOL at the two tabloid stories of Swill holding hands when none of the numerous tweet sightings mentioned it.
And used car salesmen. ;)
5:23 PM - Why would phony assholes want to waste their time on secret baby?
I don't think it would be a problem dating a young pretty girl on occassions
I'm fine with it as long as there's tons of coke for her to blow off my dick and she doesn't mind pretend, painfully unnatural horrible sex that's not exactly enjoyable!
No need for that Jake, this Taylor Swift person prefers gay boys being gay!
Oh shit WTF did I get myself into.
I think Taylor's next song will be about the jaded public. lol
According to IMDB, Anne is sceduled to appear on the Tonight Show on November 4th.
Anybody sees a lightly resemblance between Taylor and Michelle Williams? I know Michelle is a decade older but I still think they look alike.
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Yes, 5:45. :)
Anybody sees a lightly resemblance between Taylor and Michelle Williams? I know Michelle is a decade older but I still think they look alike.
You saying Jake likes Michelle? Nah! It seemed like a one sided little crush on Michelle's side. Harmelessssss.
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"I saw Love and Other Drugs by the director that did Blood Diamond….and. It. Was. Surprisingly….AWESOME. GREAT! I thought it was going to be another shitty chic flick-romantic-comedy-that-wasn’t-really-that-funny-with-hot-people-in-it kind of film, but it was more than that."
It seemed like a one sided little crush on Michelle's side. Harmelessssss.
Crush on Jake? The whole time they did promo for BBM Michelle was all over Heath, had only eyes for him. It was embarrassing how desperate for his attention she was.
Crush on Jake? The whole time they did promo for BBM Michelle was all over Heath, had only eyes for him. It was embarrassing how desperate for his attention she was.
Both, her and Jake were crazy about Heath. I mean it was Heath Ledger, duh! But I felt she had admiration for Jake too.
But I felt she had admiration for Jake too.
Again with the admiration? LOL
Admiration and crush are two different things.
Jake, bi, gay straight... I dunno but the idea of them ... it's adorable!
But what I don't get is how does it get them good publicity for each other?
Taylor's fanbase is tweens and teens right? They don't care about Jake, they are all hot for the Twilight boys.
Jake's fanbase? Taylor Swift wouldn't be the most played artist on their Ipod.
So what's the deal? Jake going through a crisis about turning 30? lol?
Who knows, but it's cute. She's a nice girl.
Again with the admiration? LOL
Admiration and crush are two different things.
Are they really so far apart, a harmless crush and admiration? IDK.
The harmless crush is in your imagination. There's nothing to indicate Michelle ever crushed on Jake.
No need for that Jake, this Taylor Swift person prefers gay boys being gay!
a poster commented a few days ago about the Jake/gayfans will be here screaming Jake is gay for decades. Every women he's seen with will be considered a beard. Even if he gets married and have a number of children, "which I think he will within 4 years" the die hard JakeIsGay fans will still be at it. If Jake is around 30 years from now, JIG fans will still be talking about Ted, bearding, and Jake being gay when he has grandchildren.
Somehow I find this to be extreme and desparate. We all know that their is a strong possibilty of him being gay and in the closet, but the same exist for him having an interest in women and, both sexes.
But just as with most women who deal with both sexes, or have a passing fancy or should I say, go thru an experimental stage, they seem to choose to the opposite sex for long term basis.
Some fans seem threatened that he may be other than gay. I say so what.
Jake, bi, gay straight... I dunno but the idea of them ... it's adorable!
There is nothing adorable about showmancing.
No way Jake is gay now or should i say come out now. This is his second America's sweetheart to date and yes there are pics of Taylor and jake in NYC.
Jake either plans on never coming out because he has backed himself into a corner by dating the virginal sweetheart after the maternal sweetheart. Or you are just going to have to live with Jake is truly gay.
I noticed Ted C's board is dead, I bet he never saw this one coming. Maybe he dropped dead.
Jake is straight but has really bad tasted in women.
The harmless crush is in your imagination. There's nothing to indicate Michelle ever crushed on Jake.
IDK, maybe. But I followed them closely during all the BBM promotional work and it's something I noticed. But maybe I'm wrong. Does it matter? :)
Some fans seem threatened that he may be other than gay.
Not after years of bearding, Jake proved his gayness.
She is young, but it's not like Jake is 50 or something. He's only 29.
Jake is straight but has really bad tasted in women.
LMAO, what a joke!
Anybody sees a lightly resemblance between Taylor and Michelle Williams?
ugghhhh, What is with this posters *OBSESSION* with Michelle Williams?
Come off it already.
This is his second America's sweetheart to date and yes there are pics of Taylor and jake in NYC.
Jake never dated Reese Witherspoon, that much is certain.
I wouldn't have minded Jake's relationship with Reese either, the (3 years only) "older" woman a) if had been true, b) the showmance rumors, and c) the fact that it always appeared she had him around by a leash, and the tabloids had that "yes dear, no dear, whatever-you-say-dear" image. Jake as sophisticated and sexy (slightly) older guy is much nicer.
there are pics of Taylor and jake in NYC
I'm sure that is enough for you to start planning their wedding and pregnancies! New hat? lol
knitting bootees
ugghhhh, What is with this posters *OBSESSION* with Michelle Williams?
Come off it already.
I agree. Who cares about her? Take it to Michelle's fan site.
has really bad tasted in women.
And that folks is why I'm gay!
Not after years of bearding, Jake proved his gayness.
^^
Not gonna touch that. I don't know what was going on there. All I know is that it's over now and has been for some time.
We see what we want to see.
Besides, I don't think every HW couple hookup is to hide one of them man/woman from gay rumors only. You're free to believe it.
Yes, HW is based on alot of smoke and screens and bs, but I do think most of these Celebs have a heart and are not as munipulated as the in the know fans think.
Some posters/fans keep the J/A basketball picture as the enduring shrine of a lovefest. I did not see it that way.
It's really depends on how much a fan indulges themselves into a celebs life. Most average people could careless about celebs. But we all love bullshit gossip. LOL
knitting bootees
Be sure to make sets of either four or six in assorted colors. You know how these in vitro procedures usually turn out twins or sometimes even triplets.
Not gonna touch that.
Of course you won't,
you will pretend that bearding with Witherspoon never happened so you can continue to sell 'Jake is bisexual or straight' fiction.
Anyone know if Taylor has childbearing hips? We might have to hire a surrogate and also get a movie costumer to do Taylor's pregnancy padding.
There's nothing to indicate Michelle ever crushed on Jake.
I did a little research, so everyone can decide for themselves, if they care.
zoom in
zoom in
happy for Jake
standing pretty close
aww, not smiling back at Jake
one more
two more
(It's all for fun guys!)
^^At least there doesn't seem to be bad blood between them like some suggested a few years ago. ;)
Of course you won't,
you will pretend that bearding with Witherspoon never happened so you can continue to sell 'Jake is bisexual or straight' fiction.
Fiction? ? ? What??
and you can act like the all knowing Oracle or the Psychic that you are and tell me your truth is better than mine, Why?
Because you Want it to be.
You can scream and rant and pitch a bitch all you want to about Jake's Sexuality, but at the end of the day, the truth is, you are just like me, Speculating about someone you don't really know. TRUTH!!
So continue to carry this Jake is gay and I'm mad as hell about his bearding and not coming out banter.
Whatever makes you HAPPY.
P.s. I can tell you are tickled pink.
Does this Taylor chick have long fingernails for belly rubs and access to an unlimited supply of steak?
6:28 PM, you really are obsessed with Jake and Michelle!
In some of those pics Michelle isn't even looking at Jake. A few pics of Michelle looking at Jake like a friend is supposed to prove Michelle was crushing on him? LOL
^^ Don't worry Atticus, Daddy is gonna be mentioned in a song soon! Something to howl at! That's better than a bit ol' steak right?
and you can act like the all knowing Oracle or the Psychic that you are and tell me your truth is better than mine, Why?
You don't have the truth, you don't even have an opinion or you are lying about your true opinion. All you have is a lot of words with very little meaning, twisting and spinning everything into 'Jake can't be gay' and 'you can't know'. But we can and we do know, just like we knew about Ricky or Adam or NPH.
6:28 PM, you really are obsessed with Jake and Michelle!
Not really.
In some of those pics Michelle isn't even looking at Jake. A few pics of Michelle looking at Jake like a friend is supposed to prove Michelle was crushing on him? LOL
It's your opinion and that's fine. :)
I'm not trying to prove anything. Everyone can decide what to think.
Maybe the wedding march. :)
That'll give 'em something to howl about.
That's it! A cover of "Let's Give 'Em Something To Howl About" could have possibilities!
Jake& Michelle poster, fuck off and get a life! You're annoying!
That's better than a bit ol' steak right?
What, are you crazy? I don't need some bitch howling about Daddy, I need food!
Jake& Michelle poster, fuck off and get a life! You're annoying!
I'm here to annoy. It's fun.
But honestly, I didn't bring up the whole Michelle/Taylor comparison. Just went along with it, that's all.
Ted C has a Swill story up if anyone wants to copy/paste/link (I can't now)
6:34PM, you're funny as hell. You're on a JiG blog trying to convince people he's not. No one needs your lectures, so why would you even spend a minute on this blog? It's just weird. Plus, no one sounds mad to me, just amused. You need to lighten up a little :)
6:34 remember your schedule. At 4:00 it's time for you to go to the Catholic blog and do your Scientology spiel. Take your break at 6:00 and then at 7:00 go to the Pro Life forum and preach abortion as birth control. Go on now. Bye bye!
eo
"there are pics of Taylor and jake in NYC"
OK I want to see the pics, where are they? I'm surprised that a 20 year old is so willing to beard for gay guys. Doesn't she want a guy for herself?
Are Taylor Swift and Jake Gyllenhaal Really a Duo?
Taylor Swift and Jake Gyllenhaal are cozying up, and some overly eager types are already calling them a couple.
We're sayin': Not so fast. All this went down in the Big Apple over the weekend, for all eyes to so easily see: The age-defying twosome (Jake is nine years Tay's senior), was spotted slightly flirting on Saturday backstage at a Saturday Night Live taping, which was hosted by Swift's BFF Emma Stone. Sunday's schedule called for a stroll through Brooklyn's Park Slope area, holding hands and sharing starry-eyed gazes, Life & Style reports.
So is this some legit hand-holding or just a setup stroll for all you shutterbugs? Definitely not your classic case of the love bug.
I mean, Tay is pretty famous for dating for the moment, not the long term. (Taylor Lautner, anyone?) The emosh songbird is hand-in-hand with yummy hunks—and it seems she's never holding on too tight. Or is she?
Jake and Taylor walked into Al Di La restaurant in Brooklyn on Sunday for an early lunch date with Emma, and they sat side-by-side the whole time.
Tay, who was sportin' some heavy makeup and looking rather stiff and uncomfortable in the Brooklyn hot spot, managed to throw in a few smiles and laughs. Jake played the cool, older guy as he chatted with the waiters and couldn't stop smiling. Plus, our sources say he was looking super hot and proud of himself in his classic V-neck and sleek aviators.
But it's hard to believe the duo is deliriously in lust, love or even like. Seems more like a PR dream stunt with a hint of jealousy thrown in, if you ask us! Especially since last week Jake's ex, Reese Witherspoon, was rumored to be tying the knot with her agent Jim Toth. Maybe he didn't get the memo that it was just that—a rumor?
Either way, Jake's spending some time with this younger female and he seems to be diggin' it. We're just wondering if the lovey-dovey action is mutual. We all know Swifty has a checklist when it comes to her crushes—hot, more mature men with love-song potential. Smart girl, eh? Indeed, the singer released a song rumored to be about her previous, much older bad-boy BF John Mayer, who was also spotted in NYC this weekend sans any hand-holding.
Jake's rep would not comment, which is kinda odd. Usually, they've got something to say.
Utter silence might just might mean this one ain't totally off-base. Let's all stay tuned.
http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/the_awful_truth/b207475_are_taylor_swift_jake_gyllenhaal_really.html
Especially since last week Jake's ex, Reese Witherspoon, was rumored to be tying the knot with her agent Jim Toth. Maybe he didn't get the memo that it was just that—a rumor?
Ted honestly thinks Jake cares about what Reese does?
Jake and Taylor
Doesn't she want a guy for herself?
Eww no.. I might have to touch that gross thingie they have. And what if he wants me to kiss it? Blech!
"Jake's rep would not comment, which is kinda odd. Usually, they've got something to say." + "Jake and Taylor" = I smell the beginning of bearding.
Tay, who was sportin' some heavy makeup and looking rather stiff and uncomfortable in the Brooklyn hot spot, managed to throw in a few smiles and laughs.
The heavy makeup was probably to cover up her swollen face after crying and pleading with her agent not to make her do this shitfest. Stiff and uncomfortable? I bet she was counting the minutes til it was over.
"Jake's rep would not comment, which is kinda odd. Usually, they've got something to say." + "Jake and Taylor" = I smell the beginning of bearding.
Bullshit, Jake's rep didn't comment Olivia, Izabel or Rachel.
6:34 remember your schedule. At 4:00 it's time for you to go to the Catholic blog and do your Scientology spiel. Take your break at 6:00 and then at 7:00 go to the Pro Life forum and preach abortion as birth control
LOL.
Tay, who was sportin' some heavy makeup and looking rather stiff and uncomfortable in the Brooklyn hot spot, managed to throw in a few smiles and laughs.
Swill it Jakey! Chug down Hollywood's hairy poison! But be forewarned: it won't be pretty when it comes out the other end... and it will come out, it always does.
LOL. Jake looks as excited to be around Taylor as he was around Reese. ;)
Jesus, some will forever believe every single word Ted blabbs. Let the Jake bashing begin for "bearding", even though no one else is suggesting this except for...wait for it...Ted.
Is this one of Ted's bombshells?
Jesus, some will forever believe every single word Ted blabbs. Let the Jake bashing begin for "bearding", even though no one else is suggesting this except for...wait for it...Ted.
Maybe she didn't ge a whole lotta sleep, and that's why a little extra makeup.
Let the Jake bashing begin for "bearding", even though no one else is suggesting this except for...wait for it...Ted.
Still pretending that Ted is the only one who claims Jake is gay and Reeke was fake? Keep pretending.
Still pretending that Ted is the only one who claims Jake is gay and Reeke was fake? Keep pretending.
It is only Ted.
No, Ted is not the only gossiper who claims that Jake is gay and Reeke was fake. What is the point of posting transparent lies like that?
But we can and we do know, just like we knew about Ricky or Adam or NPH.
WE??? WTF are you, French? WE? Speak for YOURself. Or do you need an amen choir to back your silly rant.
Do you realize that all of the above mentioned openly have babies and are proud dads about it.
I could careless about Jake's true sexuality, I just happen to think he's bisexual. My thoughts. OK!
It is clear you get your panties twisted in a Knot when anyone thinks other than you about Jake sexual preference.
I'll say it again, YOU know nothing about his true sexual preference. YOU have kidded yourself in thinking you know,
YOU Don't.
Talk Beard, Reeke, Closet, Babytile, all you want. But stop lying to yourself it might bring on a nervous breakdown or should I say Meltdown.
I have my opinions, you have yours.
I will not be attacked by you and your Bullshit.
Ps. Make a NOTE of it.
Who elese, except for that one radio guy who rehashed what Ted said?
6:34 after you do the promotions for the dogfighting anniversary gala to the Humane Society remember to go over to the PETA office and drop off the horsemeat gift basket. Then visit Babble and sell Jake is gay. After that, take the rest of the night off!
Jake's body language in the pics with Taylor doesn't say smitten (isn't that how it's supposed to be at the beginning of dating?) His stance spells awkward and I don't mean as in sexual tension awkward.
Is this one of Ted's bombshells?
^^^ YES. Where's M? lmao
7:28 the one having a meltdown is you!
You are losing it, aren't you. lol
Calm down, nobody knows anything yet. There'll be plenty of time to freak out once we get more pics.
No rest for the weary, we've still listed at guest speaker for Haus Fraus Anonymous, the topic - Gay Men and The Straight Women Preoccupied With Them.
Calm down, nobody knows anything yet.
You should calm down, it is easy to see that "dating" is made up.
Some people are taking all this way too seriously. In the end it's all just wasting time and/or fun.
Jake is rich, pretty and famous, he can hook up with almost every guy or gal he wants and I bet you he does.
Do you realize that all of the above mentioned openly have babies and are proud dads about it.
Do you realize that your playing stupid doesn't work?
We knew that Ricky is gay and bearding YEARS BEFORE his babies and coming out. Same with Clay. Or NPH.
I bet you he does.
Do you live under his bed?
Jake is rich, pretty and famous, he can hook up with almost every guy or gal he wants and I bet you he does.
Jake obviously doesn't hook up with gals.
I'll say it again, YOU know nothing about his true sexual preference. YOU have kidded yourself in thinking you know,
YOU Don't.
Yes, I do know, I know Jake is gay, no question about it.
Do you live under his bed?
Yes and sometimes when he's in the mood for me, he lets me come out of under his bed. Those are the days. Sigh.
In all seriousness, I said I bet he does, not that I know. ;)
Yes, I do know, I know Jake is gay, no question about it.
Hi Jaustinite sweetie! :)
I predict a post dedicated to Taylor's future songs.
Wrong 7:45 PM, I believe Jake and Austin are over and there is no BT.
Jake obviously doesn't hook up with gals.
Absolutely. Very obvious. Even blind people can "see" that.
Some people are taking all this way too seriously. In the end it's all just wasting time and/or fun.
Jake is rich, pretty and famous, he can hook up with almost every guy or gal he wants and I bet you he does.
Well Said and I agree.
I think posters 6:23pm and 6:59pm may have gotten to involved in Jake coming out and carrying rainbow flag. Somebody needs to tell her or him it's still all based on a "Rumor" and until the person actually speaks on it, it's stillllllll just that!
Wrong 7:45 PM, I believe Jake and Austin are over and there is no BT
Sorry for calling you a Jaustinite. ;)
he can hook up with almost every guy or gal he wants
Not me! I like boobies!
Somebody needs to tell her or him it's still all based on a "Rumor" and until the person actually speaks on it, it's stillllllll just that!
Wrong again. According to you Rock Hudson's gayness is just a rumor because he never talked about it.
sometimes when he's in the mood for me, he lets me come out of under his bed.
Actually, that was me. *cough*
Just noticed Jake is a trending topic on Yahoo. It seems the Taylor thing is working for him (for now) attention-wise.
7:44 it's really nice that Daddy and I both have hairy chests and no one can tell the difference when they feel it on their back. I do have to make sure my nails are always clipped short like Daddy's though.
Once the body language crew gets started there is NO turning this bus around.
You are an idiot.
7:57 what's really sad is you're still here lecturing everyone that JIS!
Jake is standig there relaxed and comfortable. I don't see awkward.
You don't see his right arm on his back, careful not to touch her?
LOL it looks like he's picking at his butt.
You don't see his right arm on his back, careful not to touch her?
I see relaxed Jake.
Well, there's no other male butt around ;)
LOL it looks like he's picking at his butt.
Well, there's no other male butt around ;)
LOL it looks like he's picking at his butt.
Yeah, I hope he didn't. :D
You don't see his right arm on his back, careful not to touch her?
I see relaxed Jake.
You are relaxed like that around your friends? Yeah, right! LMAO
careful not to touch her?
LOL, how this even sounds.
I agree. Just think of what's happening over at OMG. You know they're throwing up and taking Migraine pills right now.
I can't look! :)
Something tells me the Babblers aren't that enthused either.
'Respecting her personal space' works for you, 8:13 PM #3?
But it's tooooo sooooon to telllllll ...
So, according to some, Jake chooses beards he doesn't want to be around with, let alone touch. Eww. Then I wonder why Jake doesn't find himself a lil beard he actually likes, at least a little? Oh right, it's his handlers who choose for him and poor Jakey boy has no choice. :(
Something tells me the Babblers aren't that enthused either.
They quite obviously arent. ;)
You know they're throwing up and taking Migraine pills right now.
Why? What's so special about Jake hanging out with a girl?
So, according to some, Jake chooses beards he doesn't want to be around with, let alone touch.
1. Jake just acts like a gentleman. 2. Jake won't beard with Taylor Swift.
Farmers Market: $23.00
Brunch for four: $152.00
Twenty vicodins, one bottle of amyl nitrate and several bumps of coke: $600.00
One long four hour PR walk around NY: Priceless
Seriously, some seem to think that real couples do PDA 24/7, but they don't. There are many couples walking side by side without even holding hands.
Not saying Taylor and Jake are a couple, lol.
8:25 PM - you don't read posts. 'Life & Style' made up hand holding to sell dating story.
Taylor's future song about Jake:
"you had me at hello with that toothy grin
then you broke my heart, can't get it back
sat on the tile, wondering, "will i ever win?"
i thought i'd be the ennis to your jack"
i thought i'd be the ennis to your jack"
Do you have a strap on? ;)
hand holding
They briefly held hands at the restaurant, when Taylor surreptitiously slid Jake money for her portion of the bill under the table.
When your phone don't ring, it's me.
I can hardly wait until Jake and Taylor go to a big industry event together as a couple!
What? I was afraid I'll step on her dress!
This was a planned PR weekend. Someone in both camps must have some kind of connection. Great press for both. Joke on Jake. He let his people make him look like an idiot again.
First he dates a drug addict. Then he dates someone that looks like and acts like his mother. Then he hanging out with strippers. Now he dates someone who looks a little sister dressed like Cinderalla for Halloween. Who thinks Jake will ever marry one of these bimbos.
He let his people make him look like an idiot again.
How?
10:08 PM, Jake's track record ain't good, no.
As for TS, we still don't know if it was just a weekend with her.
I think he is bi and likes blond, slim women (when he is interested in a female).
Because.....
-they aren’t like his mean, perfect sister
-reminds him of his mom
-very different then men
I don’t think he has to really “like” the woman, he likes the look. I bet he likes them a little bossy.
I bet he is open to both sexes so he doesn’t see himself as gay.
I wonder if the ohno gossip is true and he was going to come out as bi (in people).
First he dates a drug addict. Then he dates someone that looks like and acts like his mother. Then he hanging out with strippers. Now he dates someone who looks a little sister dressed like Cinderalla for Halloween.
Don't forget about me and the horrible coked-up painfully unnatural sex I had to endure.
Now jake's with me. he dumped Austin years ago.
I bet he is open to both sexes so he doesn’t see himself as gay.
Jake doesn't date women, he's gay.
I wonder if the ohno gossip is true and he was going to come out as bi (in people).
Elton John did that - lied about being bi.
Michael Stipe too.
Trolly, tell us about women Jake dated. Well?
Well?
Silly trolly has nothing to tell about Jake's nonexistent girlfriends, lol.
I wonder if the ohno gossip is true and he was going to come out as bi (in people).
Yeah, I believe he was going to do that at one time. He was setting himself up for it with some of the stuff he said himself about how he "wouldn't mind being thought of as bi", blah, blah. But someone or probably a lot of someones convinced him that would be a bad career move.
Yeah, I believe he was going to do that at one time.
When? Jake was "dating" Dunst during 2005, Reeke was agreed in 2006. Jake planned to come out as bi while "dating" a woman?
Here's some YouTube sweetness from a young man to his deaf boyfriend, complete with captioning, though it's likely most of you would probably watch the clip even without the translation. There's so much hate in the news these days, it's nice to include a little bit of love.
Towleroad
When? Jake was "dating" Dunst during 2005, Reeke was agreed in 2006. Jake planned to come out as bi while "dating" a woman?
He didn't go immediately from Dunst to Reeke.
Reeke was arranged a year or less after Dunst. So Jake planned to come out as bi in 2006?
Bitch Back!
Bitch-Back! Will T.Swift Sing About Her New Dude?
Today 5:28 AM PDT by Ted Casablanca
Dear Ted:
Taylor Swift and Jake Gyllenhaal? What? PS I can't believe you buzzed your hair off. It's cute.
—Ames
Dear Caught a Swifty Drift:
We can't believe this fresh-off-the-press duo, either! While the two definitely got cozy in the Big Apple last weekend, we can't confirm that it is love at first sight. Jake is totally Tay's type, what with him being older and loving blondes. But for now, I guess we will just keep our eyes and ears peeled, especially since she may be writing up the romance sooner than later. And thanks for the buzz-cut buttering up. I like it, too!
Dear Ted:
We know T-town has lots of vices and problems...Who would you say is the most adjusted of the superstars, the happiest?
—WallaceWorld
Dear Happier Played Than Done:
Can't say anyone's über-happy out there unless you count Brangelina's Euro excursions with the kiddos. The rest are so PR they make me want to get puuuked.
Dear Ted:
Say someone signs a confidentiality agreement, what's to keep them from going to a tabloid and saying I can give you X's dirty laundry for a larger amount of money than the confidentiality agreement is slated to pay off?
—SmylesRiley
Dear Thoughtful:
No one's dirty laundry is off limits, especially if the pay-off will leave them well off. Sad, but true!
Dear Ted:
I've got a sneaking suspicion that Dashed Dingle-Dream's beard and Grey Goose's beard are on friendly terms with each other. Am I right?
—Radha
Dear Not Even Close:
Dash's beard likes to keep it under wraps. You won't see this cover getting loose with any famous gooses, even if it's just friendly.
LAOD review:
Hollywood Rep
^^^
Gyllenhaal and Hathaway are terrific as two sarcastic, sexually hungry young people eager to hop into bed, or go up against the nearest wall for a knee-trembler. Sappy romance doesn't suit either of their characters so something goes a little limp when they acknowledge their love. Where a Viagra salesman when you need him?
The artist's loft, coffee house, restaurants, late night cafes, medical offices and a sleek suburban home to a "pajama party" where the film takes place are all eye grabbers and Steven Fierberg's cinematography does justice to these visually arresting locations. Much is going on in nearly every scene. Even a running gag about a homeless man who digs drug samples out of a dumpster where Jamie throws his rival's products is damn funny.
In the end, this is a smart movie that could have been smarter. The script feels like it was a draft or so away from total clarity and focus. But the energy of the cast and a dive into an unfamiliar world make the movie rather addictive.
Silly trolly has nothing to tell about Jake's nonexistent girlfriends, lol.
You and others will be extremely dissapointed when Jake gets married to a woman and has kids. Sooner or later it's gonna happen. Some people are a tad too obsessed about this and way too invested.
There are many admirably honest actors and singers who had the guts to come out and I hope sports wo/men and politicians (people in the public eye) will be braver too. We should congratulate them, instead of desperately hoping that a Hollywood hottie like Jake G. is gay. I think he and Heath Ledger contributed a lot to how gay/bi people are perceived in their beautiful portrayal in the movie.
From various accounts people stated it opened their eyes. Even if it changed just a few peoples' minds, it's still an achievement.
And it is prove that Jake is gay friendly, it's a pity that whackos like Casablanca do nothing to help the cause, instead talk just bullshit.
The fist Toothy BI came out before BBM came out, but the movie was already filmed and Ted knew about it. It may be true that he saw Jake and Austin hand holding, or he saw what he wanted to see and there was more fiction than truth to it. Only Ted knows.
You and others will be extremely dissapointed when Jake gets married to a woman and has kids.
Nah, we will just be sorry for him, lots of gay men choose money and career over being out.
And it is prove that Jake is gay friendly
Jake's bearding is not gay friendly, that is homophobic.
Reeke was arranged a year or less after Dunst.
You've answered your own question. There's almost a year where he wasn't officially involved with anyone. Of course, I don't KNOW that he was planning on coming out as bi, I never said that, but some of the stuff he said sounded to me like he was thinking about it. That's all I'm saying.
Only Ted knows.
Yes, only Ted knows about that, but we all know about Jake's showmance with Reese Witherspoon, no one can undo that fakery.
In your opinion fakery.
10:08, give it up already. How many times are you going to give us the same old line about Jake getting married and everyone being "disappointed", and feeding everyone the same old bullshit that Brokeback is the reason for the gay rumors. Everyone's heard it before a million times. Stop hanging out here and banging your head against a wall if you find it so distasteful, and go complain to Ted directly if you're so pissed off at him.
10:19 AM - Yes, in my opinion based on 1.000 proofs. I know that you don't believe Reeke was real either, you don't believe it for a second.
Yes, in my opinion based on 1.000 proofs. I know that you don't believe Reeke was real either, you don't believe is for a second.
I didn't like Reeke. I think both overdid it with famwhoring. But I think they were, well real. That said, I'm glad it's over.
10:22 AM - yes, I said it before, but I'm not the only one repeating myself. I used to be interested in that particular BV, that's the time when I started to become a fan of Jake's and everything about him was interesting to me. But now I think Ted is just a pathetic wishful thinker.
But I think they were, well real.
Sorry, I can't believe that anyone who followed the showmance can be that ignorant.
Sorry, I can't believe that anyone who followed the showmance can be that ignorant.
Ignorant? I think you may be the wrong person to call me that.
Elton John did that - lied about being bi.
Michael Stipe too.
These are 2 of millions of men in the world. Besides these two are celebritys also.
Everytime a poster uses a now gay male celebrity who used to say he was straight or bi, it makes the poster seem ignorant to the fact that these celebrity males do not reflect the men of the world who live double lives. Either Openly bisexual to everyonoe or important people in their lives or the (in the closet "bisexual" men) of the world. And then there is the lying gay man who says he is straight or bi.
I guess these posters only believe the later, that men can only be gay or straight and nothing else. They are wrong.
Ignorant? I think you may be the wrong person to call me that.
I'm the right person to call you that - I've followed Reeke from the pathetic start to the even more pathetic end, and I know that a lot of people, who aren't fans, could see how fake that PR charade was :)
Everytime a poster uses a now gay male celebrity who used to say he was straight or bi, it makes the poster seem ignorant to the fact that these celebrity males do not reflect the men of the world who live double lives.
What that has to do with anything? No one reflects other people, every person is an individual.
I'm the right person to call you that - I've followed Reeke from the pathetic start to the even more pathetic end, and I know that a lot of people, who aren't fans, could see how fake that PR charade was :)
But there were just as many close followers and others who believed they were genuine. It's a matter of opinion or better what people wish to believe.
Sorry, I can't believe that anyone who followed the showmance can be that ignorant.
Ignorant? I think you may be the wrong person to call me that.
^^ I agree.
If you thought that it was a showmance, ok, that's your opinion. That's good. But everyone don't have to follow that attitude.
I have always have thought that Jake likes men and women. It's my thoughts. So I can't say two people would go around for 3 years or more just for photo ops. I don't believe it. Sure they both would both benefited from it.
I don't know if Jake was really into her, but I think they genuinely liked and cared for each other during their time together.
I do think they were sexual.
Now this comment ^ will bring out all of the PRO Gay and Pro Jake is Gay posters railing against my opinion. As if they know for facts what's going on in someone else's life let alone their own.
I also don't think the bad PR people are just out there to silence the few blogs that say Jake is gay. I don't believe this. Besides, what's wrong with him dating or having sex with a woman every now and then?
Why does this hurt some so badly here?
Jake's bearding is not gay friendly, that is homophobic.
So much venom towards an actually nice guy, based on words from an internet gossip columnist.
This small, very vocal group of TB and TC believers who used to spread their agenda all over net when he was dating Witherspoon, are the same ones waiting in the woodworks to come out immediately after Jake starts "bearding" again. That's gonna happen with every female Jake's going to go out with.
But there were just as many close followers and others who believed they were genuine.
Fangirls who believe obvious tabloid bullshit? Babblers planning Reeke weddings? Who?
Nothing's for certain yet, although there have been no denials, which is interesting. Spending the weekend together is more that dating, I think. But we'll see what happens.
I'm the right person to call you that - I've followed Reeke from the pathetic start to the even more pathetic end, and I know that a lot of people, who aren't fans, could see how fake that PR charade was :)
I'm sorry, What it sounds like is that you have a motive for the relationshop to be called a showmance. Maybe you were following them (too) closely.
Just maybe (YOU) want it to be.
Have you given this any thought, YET?
In this case: spending the weekend = hanging out together for a few hours = nothing worth mentioning.
Spending the weekend together is more that dating, I think.
Another tabloid believer, lol.
It could be just hanging out together too, absolutely.
Fangirls who believe obvious tabloid bullshit? Babblers planning Reeke weddings? Who?
ONTD, JJ, JJB etc. are all blogs were the opinions about Reeke were divided. I'm not talking about the two extremes: babblers or TBers. Those were mostly people who were not obsessed with them.
I'm sorry, What it sounds like is that you have a motive for the relationshop to be called a showmance. Maybe you were following them (too) closely.
Of course, the less you know about PR tactics and lies the better!
Who needs common sense when Jake has to be straight?
Who needs common sense when Jake has to be straight?
Common sense? Dude!
You obviously want him desperately to be gay like babblers desperately want him to be straight. Jake has the weirdest fans who have problems to accept that there's something between gay or straight. It's either or.
Jake seems like the settling down type to me. He does have a very polarized fandom, it's true. Katy Perry and Russell Brand are ten years apart in age, Jay-Z and Beyonce, the list goes on and on.
Calbe news channel MSNBC just talked about this rumor.
The host asked 3 people about the TS / JG rumor and the African American male guest said I don't know if it's true but he does know that there are alot of gay men out there who are very upset. LMaO
Everyone fell out laughing and the host had a look on her face as if "I don't believe you just said that". He also said Yes the host was old fashion in her thinking that a 29 year old male may be too old for her (TS). He also said Jake was easy on the eye. TS =20 or 21, Jake 29. What's the hell wrong with that?
11:00 AM - Yes, common sense will tell you that the more you know about something or someone the more likely you will know the truth about it or them.
11:00 AM - Yes, common sense will tell you that the more you know about something or someone the more likely you will know the truth about it or them.
But who says that what YOU think is true? I've been following him probably as closely as you did (not proud of it) and have a slightly different OPINION. You are not Miss Know it all or a psychic, I suppose.
TS =20 or 21, Jake 29. What's the hell wrong with that?
Nothing, I'm sure Jake won't beard with her.
The host asked 3 people about the TS / JG rumor and the African American male guest said I don't know if it's true but he does know that there are alot of gay men out there who are very upset. LMaO
BBM jokes will forever be part of Jake's life.
Of course, the less you know about PR tactics and lies the better!
Who needs common sense when Jake has to be straight?
You're talking to the wrong person.
I'm not a teen or some love struck fan. I know about PR tactics.
I know enough to know that they have better things to do than try and counter the JIG blogs relentless attacks on the internet and the shallow JIG fans who want acceptance for all but scream that Jake is gay and nothing other continuously around the internet.
BBM jokes will forever be part of Jake's life.
They won't, but his gayness will.
10:22 AM - yes, I said it before, but I'm not the only one repeating myself. I used to be interested in that particular BV, that's the time when I started to become a fan of Jake's and everything about him was interesting to me. But now I think Ted is just a pathetic wishful thinker.
LOL, but you still can't answer the question about why you can't stop yourself from hanging out here and lecturing people. I don't know if you've forgotten what blog you're on or if it just makes you feel good about yourself to preach to people :) Like I said before, if you've got a problem with Ted, take it to his site. Maybe he'll care more about what you have to say :)
They won't, but his gayness will.
As if this guy knows whether Jake is gay or not. Please. It is because of BBM.
When Heath and Michelle broke up they made fun of them on a tv news show alluding he broke up with her because of Jake. BBM jokes. Heath got a chunck of them too.
But who says that what YOU think is true? I've been following him probably as closely as you did (not proud of it) and have a slightly different OPINION.
It is not my fault if you think that arranged photo ops and PR lies constitute a real relationship.
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