"Only when you drink from the river of silence
shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the mountain top,
then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth shall claim your limbs,
then shall you truly dance."
Kahlil Gibran
"The Prophet"
Heath Ledger's Memorial in Heathcote, Perth
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@ @imhotshyt lol He was with his girl shopping. I would've went up to him and greeted him but didn't want to cause a scene for him
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@ @imhotshyt lol he was standing RIGHT next to me!!!
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Promises, promises...
Cynthia Nixon Update: I Don’t Identify as Bi Because Nobody Likes Bisexuals
Perhaps sensing some frustration (and a twinge of outrage?) from the LGBT community over her comments about choosing to be gay, Cynthia Nixon spoke with The Daily Beast’s Kevin Sessums for a quickie follow-up interview.
Sessums, like the majority of our readers, posits that if Nixon truly possesses the ability to choose between being gay and being straight, then isn’t she really bisexual? And wouldn’t that then mean she didn’t actually have a choice in her sexuality after all?
KS: You’ve been very vocal and political about marriage equality and helped lead the successful fight for it in New York. So congratulations on your own marriage. But before you met and fell in love over seven years ago now with Christine—who, through a sperm donor, gave birth to your son Max Ellington almost a year ago—you were in a 15-year relationship with Danny Mozes, whom you first met in high school. You had two children with him—Samantha, who is now 15, and Charles Ezekiel, who is 9. You’ve been quoted as saying about these two relationships in your life: “In terms of sexual orientation, I don’t really feel I’ve changed … I’ve been with men all my life and I’d never fallen in love with a woman. But when I did, it didn’t seem so strange. I’m just a woman in love with another woman.” I’m a bit confused. Were you a lesbian in a heterosexual relationship? Or are you now a heterosexual in a lesbian relationship? That quote seemed like you were fudging a bit.
CN: It’s so not fudging. It’s so not. I think for gay people who feel 100 percent gay, it doesn’t make any sense. And for straight people who feel 100 percent straight, it doesn’t make any sense. I don’t pull out the “bisexual” word because nobody likes the bisexuals. Everybody likes to dump on the bisexuals.
KS: But it is the “B” in LGBT.
CN: I know. But we get no respect.
KS: You just said “we,” so you must self-identify as one.
CN: I just don’t like to pull out that word. But I do completely feel that when I was in relationships with men, I was in love and in lust with those men. And then I met Christine and I fell in love and lust with her. I am completely the same person and I was not walking around in some kind of fog. I just responded to the people in front of me the way I truly felt.
Yikes.
Honestly, we can empathize with Nixon and her feelings toward her own sexuality. But this interview just makes her come off worse than before.
Nobody has the right to judge anyone about who they are attracted to – it’s kind of what the LGBT community is fighting for, isn’t it? But we can’t imagine that saying “nobody likes bisexuals” is going to go over very well.
Cynthia, honey, you are over 40, you really should think before speaking on the record.
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Promises, promises...
Jake, is that you?
But we can’t imagine that saying “nobody likes bisexuals” is going to go over very well.
It never goes over well when you confront people with their own hypocrisy. What she's saying is there are many who don't believe in bisexuality. No reason why speaking her truth shouldn't go over well.
She was in a 15-year relationship with a man that produced two kids - obviously she was very active with him, how can that be negated, and now she's in love with a woman. Who knows all the whys and wherefores, and why should it matter.
Cynthia Nixon has PERSONAL issues with her sexuality - at first she tried to present it as "I coosed to be gay", now she's pissed of because people don't like bisexuals.
WTF? She's an adult, a mother, why she needs other people to like her or bisexuals in order to share simple truth about herself?
... choosed ...
She was in a 15-year relationship with a man that produced two kids - obviously she was very active with him...ΕΎ
I think she wanted kids and faked relationship with her ex husband, and that is part of her issues.
She will be the one to discuss that if so.
We'll have to check with Destiny to see what her opinion is about how often hets need to have sex in order to qualify as a true heterosexual. I remember she was talking about how she thought Will and Jada never have sex, but they produced two children also, unless it was by immaculate conception.
^^Chief Loon and Bottlewasher. No, maybe PG qualifies for that title. I was shaking my head about all the to-do about photos. Perhaps Maggie just wasn't showing at the time the photo was taken?
Cynthia said something about people questioning relationship with her husband - or I imagined that because I can't find that quote.
We'll have to check with Destiny
I'm just going to wait for SK's red arrows to tell me the truth!
Perhaps Maggie just wasn't showing at the time the photo was taken?
Shut up and pay attention to the arrows!
*ungrateful bitches*
I don’t pull out the “bisexual” word because nobody likes the bisexuals. Everybody likes to dump on the bisexuals.
Cynthia Nixon got this one Right!!
If people were more open about sexuality as they "SAY" they are, "Gays" and Politically Correct "Straight folks" also, they would understand her comments, but they ARE NOT. So the bisexual person is Damnned by both. They say you are either or.
I'm more pissed with the so-called gays who scream for fairness and equality and live and let live, then judge and condemn bisexual people, well, bisexual MEN anyway. Pretty or gorgeous bi women get a past.
Please.
Cynthia Nixon talks shit and is part of the problem - why should anyone respect bisexuals like her?
^^ Why?
Please explain your "she is apart of the problem" comment.
She lives her life, not you. You only know what's going on inside of your head, not hers.
What's needed is for people to respect others sexuality. As you would want other to respect yours.
I assume you are gay, I am too.
If you are gay, YOU are apart of the problem.
Another gay person judging someone elses different sexuality.
WoW, who would have thought that would happpen???
Please explain your "she is apart of the problem" comment.
I did - Cynthia Nixon talks shit.
What she said was a lie and insulting: "I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice (to be gay), and you don’t get to define my gayness for me."
What she said about bisexuality is even more stupid and more insulting: "I just don’t like to pull out that word (bisexuality)."
People like Destiny define gayness for others all the time.
Are you bisexual?
If you are NOT, then how can you speak on it? being bisexual I mean
What's stupid and insulting about her comment?
Can you really say that Ms Mixon's thoughts and expressions about "her OWN sexuality".
She's not speaking for you, are you aware of this?
What's stupid and insulting about her comment?
????????????????
Is that a joke question?
What's stupid and insulting about her comment? Can you really say that Ms Mixon's thoughts and expressions about "her OWN sexuality".
Yes. And I'm being nice and gentle.
Can you really say that Ms Mixon's thoughts and expressions about "her OWN sexuality" are insulting? Why are they insulting to YOU? WTF??
That's like some straight person saying they don't believe people are and can be gay, and if they say they are, it's stupid and insulting. And, many straight people feel this way about gay people.
This makes you no different than the self righteous biggots who are not open to others sexuality.
Cynthia is Right. The B in LGBT is overlooked. Hell, Trangenders seem to get more respect from the these groups.
When they all should be well represented and respected! Not just lesbians and gay identifying men.
Is that a joke question?
^^ absoulutely NOT!
What don't you understand?
By her statements, Cynthia is implying that Jake Gyllenhaal might not be 100% gay and in a relationship with Austin Nichols, and anything less is unacceptable. The only subject that matters.
11:11 AM / 11:13 AM - please read more carefully, you are missing the point.
This discussion isn't about Cynthia's or anyone's right to define her/his sexuality and be open about it.
This discussion is about public person talking bullshit about (her) sexuality.
Big difference.
^^ I'm sure some posters here has a problem with the above statement, but that's their problem.
Nobody here can define another person sexuality. We can trully assume that the masculine women and feminine men stars are gay, and most of us do, just that, but, for the stars that don't fit the image of a gay person we can go with rumors and speculate with them also, but who says they can't be bisexual?
When they all should be well represented and respected! Not just lesbians and gay identifying men.
I agree. But Cynthia Nixon doesn't deserve my respect, nor respect from bisexuals because she doesn't even want to use the word bisexual!
KS: But it is the “B” in LGBT.
CN: I know. But we get no respect.
KS: You just said “we,” so you must self-identify as one.
CN: I just don’t like to pull out that word.
Nobody here can define another person sexuality.
Who here tried to define Cynthia Nixon's sexuality? Which comment?
bullshit 11:15. You're not in her head and you can't speak for her experiences. I understand totally what she is saying. You can't because you don't want to.
Have you been married to and had children with an opposite sex person? Have you been in love and LUST with an opposite sex person? Have you been in love/lust with same sex person?
She explains that she has had these experiences. If you have not, how the hell can you speak for her and assume that what she speaks is a lie?
What is you take on Angelian Jolie and her same sex or should I say bisexual experience and now, straight life style?
Oh, I forgot, she's beautiful and a woman. They can do it and nobody will bitch, complain, take sides or raise an eyebrow.
Put any beautiful HW male star married with children in the same sexual situations as A Jolie and YOU and every gay and str8 fan would label the male star gay. Not once believing he could like both sexes Angelina obvious does/has.
Hypocrosy running amock with self righteous judging gay folk.
I can't believe it!
I know a woman at work who prefers woman but decided she wanted to have a family and is married with 3 children. She choose that type of life over sexual preference. I can understand that.
^^ Oh by the way I am 100% Gay and I had no choice about it.
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11:15. You're not in her head and you can't speak for her experiences. I understand totally what she is saying.
Cynthia Nixon tried to sell crap about being special and "choosing to be gay" because she doesn't like to use word bisexual.
That much is clear.
What is she saying according to you?
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LIAR! THERE ARE NO JAKE PHOTOS FROM NEW YORK! HIS BEARD CAN'T BE THAT LONG! FAKED BY PR! WHERE ARE MY ARROWS?
lol
Have you been married to and had children with an opposite sex person? Have you been in love and LUST with an opposite sex person? Have you been in love/lust with same sex person? She explains that she has had these experiences. If you have not, how the hell can you speak for her and assume that what she speaks is a lie?
You don't have to be bisexual to know what word bisexual means.
Cynthia Nixon doesn't like that label or word so she talked bullshit about being straight for a man and gay for a woman - because bisexuals aren't liked! Like she's 14 year old. Too stupid for words.
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What is she saying according to you?
According to me, she chose to be with a woman "NOW" since she fell in love with a woman. She is bisexual truely because she was in love and LUST with a man and had children with him whiched spanned 15 years or more.
((Can YOU say that))?
She now chooses to identify as gay because she, as a mature woman with life experience with "both" men and women, chooses to call herself gay becuase of the backlash and prejudices of the gay community, and at time, the str8 comm. towards this issue.
According to her, she was not born gay, and I and others KNOW that people are. Some people know from early on that they are attracted to both sexes, but most of them lead and married the opposite sex and lead a str8 life style, or somewhat. Some are not at all, but then it just happens with the "Right" person of the same sex.
What's so frickking hard to understand about that?
Stop being so political and rigid about anothers sexuality. As long as you know who YOU are is the matter, not how someone else defines "their OWN" sexuality.
@Jakodog92
Meghan Chavez I just saw the Jake Gyllenhaal guy! Never usually see him anywhere but the cafe, the field, and the gym.
an audition for a music video 'acting' with Jake Gyllenhaal
More casting?! That sounds like an expensive and ambitious music video.
As long as you know who YOU are is the matter, not how someone else defines "their OWN" sexuality.
Well said.
Last thing on this:
11:47 you have not answered my question and analogy of Angelina Jolie's experience. Why NOT?
It's a good example of a person who has had sex with both, men and women. Who now leads a straight life. No backlash at all. Including you.
What's so frickking hard to understand about that? Stop being so political and rigid about anothers sexuality. As long as you know who YOU are is the matter, not how someone else defines "their OWN" sexuality.
Gay, bisexual, straight, asexual, pansexual... doesn't matter to me.
I don't tolerate anyone's lies, bullshit or stupidity, and Cynthia Nixon bullshited and gave really stupid "explanations" for her bullshit.
11:47 you have not answered my question and analogy of Angelina Jolie's experience. Why NOT?
Because there is nothing to say about Angelina - as far as I know, Angelina didn't lie or talk bullshit about her sexuality.
It's a good example of a person who has had sex with both, men and women. Who now leads a straight life. No backlash at all. Including you.
I really feel stupid repeating the same thing over and over again - please read 11:19 AM.
Why do you pretend to discuss things when it is obvious that you don't even bother to read other people's comments?
Talk about out-there views.
It's a good example of a person who has had sex with both, men and women. Who now leads a straight life. No backlash at all.
What is the point of this fake, made up analogy? Why are you suggesting that there is some kind of backlash on Cynthia Nixon for being gay / bisexual when you know that's not the case?
^^^ as far as you know?
Angelina has talked about her same sex experiences.
Cynthia has also. The difference is, Angelina has moved on to being straight now, something that could NEVER happen if it were a male star.
goodness, Imagine the gay rumors! LOL
Cynthia expressed what Angelina is doing, just the opposite. At the time Jolie was involved, dating and having sex with a woman. Now married with a man.
Cynthia did not lie, she spoke her mind just as Jolie did then.
You just don't want to believe her, thus, you say she's lying.
I don't see it that way because it's her life and experiences, not mine, not yours.
12:23 Sorry, YOu're not reading.
Cynthia spoke about the "possible" backlash of coming out as a bisexual person as it pretains to Her. So she chooses the term gay although she truly considers herself as bisexual. GET IT!
12:25 PM - you are really impossible. Do you ever listen to other people?
For fuck's sake how many times do you need to be told that no one here or in LGBT community has a problem with CN's sexuality, but has a problem with idiotic things she's saying!
"I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice (to be gay), and you don’t get to define my gayness for me."
"I just don’t like to pull out that word (bisexuality)."
Cynthia spoke about the "possible" backlash of coming out as a bisexual person as it pretains to Her.
Cynthia never said that:
KS: You’ve been very vocal and political about marriage equality and helped lead the successful fight for it in New York. So congratulations on your own marriage. But before you met and fell in love over seven years ago now with Christine—who, through a sperm donor, gave birth to your son Max Ellington almost a year ago—you were in a 15-year relationship with Danny Mozes, whom you first met in high school. You had two children with him—Samantha, who is now 15, and Charles Ezekiel, who is 9. You’ve been quoted as saying about these two relationships in your life: “In terms of sexual orientation, I don’t really feel I’ve changed … I’ve been with men all my life and I’d never fallen in love with a woman. But when I did, it didn’t seem so strange. I’m just a woman in love with another woman.” I’m a bit confused. Were you a lesbian in a heterosexual relationship? Or are you now a heterosexual in a lesbian relationship? That quote seemed like you were fudging a bit.
CN: It’s so not fudging. It’s so not. I think for gay people who feel 100 percent gay, it doesn’t make any sense. And for straight people who feel 100 percent straight, it doesn’t make any sense. I don’t pull out the “bisexual” word because nobody likes the bisexuals. Everybody likes to dump on the bisexuals.
KS: But it is the “B” in LGBT.
CN: I know. But we get no respect.
KS: You just said “we,” so you must self-identify as one.
CN: I just don’t like to pull out that word. But I do completely feel that when I was in relationships with men, I was in love and in lust with those men. And then I met Christine and I fell in love and lust with her. I am completely the same person and I was not walking around in some kind of fog. I just responded to the people in front of me the way I truly felt.
So she chooses the term gay although she truly considers herself as bisexual.
You make her sound like an imature idiot who declares fake sexuality because she wants people to like her! LOL :)
Jake is back in his "In to the Wilde" look.
Cynthia spoke about the "possible" backlash of coming out as a bisexual person as it pretains to Her. So she chooses the term gay although she truly considers herself as bisexual.
Let me introduce to you and Cynthia Nixon a brand new concept: integrity.
"Integrity is a concept of consistency of actions, values, methods, measures, principles, expectations, and outcomes. In ethics, integrity is regarded as the honesty and truthfulness or accuracy of one's actions. Integrity can be regarded as the opposite of hypocrisy,[1] in that it regards internal consistency as a virtue, and suggests that parties holding apparently conflicting values should account for the discrepancy or alter their beliefs.
The word "integrity" stems from the Latin adjective integer (whole, complete).[2] In this context, integrity is the inner sense of "wholeness" deriving from qualities such as honesty and consistency of character. As such, one may judge that others "have integrity" to the extent that they act according to the values, beliefs and principles they claim to hold."
Jake is back in his "In to the Wilde" look.
Let him enjoy it for a few more days!
I’m a bit confused. Were you a lesbian in a heterosexual relationship? Or are you now a heterosexual in a lesbian relationship? That quote seemed like you were fudging a bit.
It's KS who want to categorize her sexuality, and seems to be baffled because he can't. She's a woman who loved someone once, and now is in love with another person. The body they're in doesn't matter.
I don't think you have any idea of the concept of integrity. Cynthia is being true to herself, so she has it. You don't agree - but it's not a matter of integrity.
It's KS who want to categorize her sexuality, and seems to be baffled because he can't. She's a woman who loved someone once, and now is in love with another person. The body they're in doesn't matter.
Is it possible that you don't understand what bisexuality means? She is talking about bisexuality, but she is too special to use the word because she is so fucking special.
You don't agree - but it's not a matter of integrity.
You called her a liar: "So she chooses the term gay although she truly considers herself as bisexual."
People who lie, because that's easier path, have no integrity.
is talking about bisexuality, but she is too special to use the word because she is so fucking special.
LOL
@_ShesVINTAGE
Tatsnlipstick I was starstruck seeing jake gyllenhaal eating at my job and I was the one to take care of him!! ππππππππ
Take care of him?!? Oh, OK, that wasn't a massage place! :)
Damn, there are days when I envy Jake and his senior citizen lifestyle so much!
I don't think you have any idea of the concept of integrity. Cynthia is being true to herself, so she has it. You don't agree - but it's not a matter of integrity.
^^^^ THANNNNNKKKK YOU!
I agree!
Cynthia is being true to herself, so she has it.
Really?
Then why did you, who defend her like crazy, admited she's a liar: "So she chooses the term gay although she truly considers herself as bisexual"?
You don't agree - but it's not a matter of integrity.
It is a matter of integrity.
How pathetic is Cynthia Nixon when she makes up shit like "for me it’s a choice" just because she wants to be liked? Or wants to hide the fact she was gay while married to a man?
LOL, I hardly think she'd make such a controversial statement that she's gotten nothing bu8t grief over since she said it, if she wanted to be liked. She's doing just the opposite, saying what she thinks and feels, and who are you to say she's lying? Are you her wife or ex-husband?
It's a matter of taking sides - if you are bisexual, politically you are seen as not being supportive. Although Cynthia has done a lot in support of gay marriage and coming forward.
LGBT = lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.
It's a matter of taking sides - if you are bisexual, politically you are seen as not being supportive.
Not being supportive of what?
LOL, I hardly think she'd make such a controversial statement that she's gotten nothing bu8t grief over since she said it, if she wanted to be liked.
SHE said it. And don't forget that she said it while trying to fix her first, unfortunate statement.
Cynthia Nixon - new update:
Outrage spread online that Nixon might be saying being gay is not genetic, followed by defenses of whether it even matters. Now Nixon is clarifying her words in a carefully thought-out statement, with the hope that finally what she intended to say comes through.
"My recent comments in The New York Times were about me and my personal story of being gay. I believe we all have different ways we came to the gay community and we can't and shouldn't be pigeon-holed into one cultural narrative which can be uninclusive and disempowering. However, to the extent that anyone wishes to interpret my words in a strictly legal context I would like to clarify:
"While I don't often use the word, the technically precise term for my orientation is bisexual. I believe bisexuality is not a choice, it is a fact. What I have 'chosen' is to be in a gay relationship.
"As I said in the Times and will say again here, I do, however, believe that most members of our community — as well as the majority of heterosexuals — cannot and do not choose the gender of the persons with whom they seek to have intimate relationships because, unlike me, they are only attracted to one sex.
"Our community is not a monolith, thank goodness, any more than America itself is. I look forward to and will continue to work toward the day when America recognizes all of us as full and equal citizens."
I do, however, believe that most members of our community — as well as the majority of heterosexuals — cannot and do not choose the gender of the persons with whom they seek to have intimate relationships because, unlike me, they are only attracted to one sex.
Damn,
Cynthia Ellen Nixon doesn't understand what heterosexuality means!
Cynthia seems a little confuse
Almost there Cynthia - it's going to be fourth time lucky! :)
All that years with Sarah Jessica Parker have upset her
LOL :)
June-July 2010
Since the initial acknowledgment, Nixon has opened up about Marinoni’s identity and their life together, but she maintains that coming out wasn’t the result of an earth-shattering personal revelation. There was no knock-you-down sense of shock, no Sturm und Drang about tiptoeing into queer territory. Nor does she think she was hardwired from birth to one day emerge from a sexual chrysalis as a lesbian. “I identify as gay as a political stance,” she says. “If anybody, prior to my meeting and falling in love with Christine, had asked me about what I think about sexuality, I would have said I think we’re all bisexual. But I had that point of view without ever having felt attracted to a woman. I had never met a woman I was attracted to [before Christine]. And maybe if I’d met her when I was 20, I would have fallen in love and only dated women. But maybe if I’d met her at 20, I wouldn’t have responded at all. Who knows?
http://www.advocate.com/Print_Issue/Cover_Stories/Cynthia_Nixon_is_More_Than_Just_Sex/
“I identify as gay as a political stance,”
WTF?!
Poor Christine
If anybody, prior to my meeting and falling in love with Christine, had asked me about what I think about sexuality, I would have said I think we’re all bisexual.
I guess that explains why she said that minority of heterosexuals are in fact bisexual.
I think Cynthia simply can't make up her mind :)
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Is It wrong that I really think Jake Gyllenhall is really hot In Prince of Persia? And I'm not gay. I think
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Oh great! Another one who can't make up his mind! :)
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@drsexington What movie DOESN'T need that?
“I identify as gay as a political stance,”
some of my friends conform to this idea. We argue about at times. Good discussion. We are all gay, but my friend and other do believe that bisexual people get lumped under the Gay banner because it's political. And these frineds of mine are alright with it. They say it's just political and "most people" would classify a bisexual person as gay just because.
I have said NO, it's wrong. So I can understand where Cynthia is coming from with her statement, and believe it or not, others understand her also. This is done just so to not make waves. Go with the flow. Because, you're gonna get bitching from both side, gays and str8 trying to catagorize you. But what she did was tell the interviewer her true thoughts, position, and stance on "her" sexuality. It's her life, her experiences, her sex/love/lust. NObody else. She would KNoW!!!!
Others can BITCH all they want while trying to define someone else sexuality!
I say mine your business as long as you know who you are.
Ps Poor Christine? ? I'm sure Christine was and is well aware of her partners position on this matter. And guess what, She don't have to deal with it, or Cynthia, but she's still there.
OK
I think Cynthia simply can't make up her mind :)
^^^ there you have it ^^^
a possible str8 or gay person not understanding a bisexual person, so the default is to say, they're confused. You will get it form both ends. The str8 and gays will ridicule you. This is why most bi people just confrom.
But, bisexual people only have themselves to blame because they mostly lay silent and hidden and don't speak up for themselves. So when you don't take the reins and speak up for yourself, your beliefs and position, other will frame the narrative for you.
In other words, they will speak for you and tell your story the way they want to. The way they see it.
Like the Democrats letting the Republicans frame healthcare, other policies and lies, while they layed low, said nothing and got trampled last Nov. Speak up for YOUR rights, stance, position, don't let others do it for you.
Awwhh Sorry for the political BS.
Being gay is not a political stance , it is a human condition. declare himself gay and to fight for your own rights, is a taking of conscience and the assumption of a political position.
I think Cynthia simply can't make up her mind :)
^^^ there you have it ^^^
a possible str8 or gay person not understanding a bisexual person, so the default is to say, they're confused. You will get it form both ends. The str8 and gays will ridicule you. This is why most bi people just confrom.
Please.
Read what Cynthia Nixon said and stop blaming others for her bullshit.
And don't blame others for her lack of integrity.
Miranda can have" sex around the whole city", just she cannot decide with whom
Jake Gyllenhaal, in the top five of "Sexiest Men on the Planet" by Heat magazine
Source: www.digitalspy.co.uk
Mom, I made it!
a possible str8 or gay person not understanding a bisexual person, so the default is to say, they're confused
1. Cynthia Nixon sounds very confused - she even thinks that some heterosexuals are bisexual.
2. Why do you continue this silly notion that understanding bisexuality is some kind of rocket science?
Jake Gyllenhaal, in the top five of "Sexiest Men on the Planet" by Heat magazine
DUH!!!
David Beckham has been crowned the 'Sexiest Man on the Planet' by readers of Heat magazine.
The Los Angeles Galaxy footballer beat actors Ryan Gosling and Ryan Reynolds into second and third place respectively, while Bradley Cooper and Jake Gyllenhaal complete the top five.
There is serious lack of sexy actors in Hollywood!
a possible str8 or gay person not understanding a bisexual person, so the default is to say, they're confused
1. Cynthia Nixon sounds very confused - she even thinks that some heterosexuals are bisexual.
2. Why do you continue this silly notion that understanding bisexuality is some kind of rocket science?
^^^ are you still at it about Cynthia's Comment! Please, give it a rest already.
She spoke for herself, about herself, and about her belief and experiences. I'm sure you don't share her beliefs nor her EXPERIENCES. She has a right to her voice and opinion just as you. She can believe what she wants.
She was NOT speaking for YOU! Afterall, it is about her
Don't try to censor her voice because you see things differently.
She has a right to her voice and opinion just as you.
And I have every right to comment her PUBLIC words + she did NOT talk only about herself.
Please, give it a rest already.
Who are you to tell others what they should do?
She has a right to her voice and opinion just as you. She can believe what she wants. ... Don't try to censor her voice because you see things differently.
Please stop making up shit and lying. No one tried to censore anything, just point out how wrong and confused she is.
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Sometimes I really don't like this blog . Every time the word bisexual comes up it turns into a dog chasing its tail situation . And it goes on and on for ages
Some people are trying to prove that bisexuals are so very special, lol :)
Jake Gyllenhaal spotting! Clean shaven now.
One small step...
I wonder if Bang Bang Evil Keith got the part in Jake's music video.
Some people are trying to prove that bisexuals are so very special, lol :)
That's a damn lie and you know it.
What it seems is your gayness is threatened by Cynthia's comment, so you have to vilify her statements as confused. She did not talk about being bi is special, you have!
Nobody's taking anything away from your GAYNESS!
Her statements don't do that.
Be happy and gay, wag your tail, do something. But you cannot speak for her values and experience, just as you would not want or let a straight person speak to your experiences, values and insight about you being gay.
It's very simple!
Don't be so Threatened.
^^^ There's no reason for it!!!!
(Threat)
so you have to vilify her statements as confused
LOL! Please try READING what she said:
1. she was gay: "I identify as gay as a political stance"
2. being gay was her choice: "And for me, it is a choice. I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice, and you don’t get to define my gayness for me"
3. no, she is bisexual, but doesn't like that word: "I just don’t like to pull out that word"
4. she is bisexual, that is not by her choice and she is OK with using the word: "While I don't often use the word, the technically precise term for my orientation is bisexual. I believe bisexuality is not a choice, it is a fact."
5. she thinks that some heterosexuals are bisexual: "I do, however, believe that most members of our community — as well as the majority of heterosexuals — cannot and do not choose the gender of the persons...".
Keep pretending she didn't say all that!
Don't be so Threatened.
You should take your own advice. Don't act like all LGBT people are smart and right.
wag your tail, do something
Great advice - I don't take issue with anything Cynthia has said, she's entitled to her views. We can agree, or not, and then go about our own business.
Nobody's taking anything away from your GAYNESS! ... But you cannot speak for her values and experience...
Huh?!? What are you talking about? I bet you are OMGer, they are masters of beating around the bush and avoiding the real subject.
^^^ not an OMGer OK
I have not beat around any bush.
I've made my statements and I stand by them. I'm not threatened by Cynthia's statement.
YOU seem to be.
I believe her and respect her views, YOU Dont'! Then you vilify her by calling her confused because you don't like it and don't agree with her.
And, somehow your whole existance of being gay and (Born Gay) is "THREATENED" by it.
I don't know why. But it is what it is and I'm FINISHED with the subject.
Don't be so Threatened by her statements about bisexuality is all I'm saying.
You're GAY, how can (YOU) speak to the subject matter.
Goodbye......
I've made my statements and I stand by them.
You just keep playing stupid and want people to shut up about Cynthia Nixon's bullshit.
not an OMGer OK
No? You sound like one, they too hate facts they don't like.
Oh and...
...I saw Jake Gyllenhaal yesterday at ABC Home downtown. He was as sexy as you would think. In fact, with that beard, he was even sexier.
Is Jake furnishing house to NY?
12:44 PM - oh my, you are such a sore loser! LOL
Is Jake furnishing house to NY?
Buying some cookware? Jake has a nice house in warm and sunny LA, don't think he'll move to New York.
I think that Jake can have more than a house and a his place in NY it make sense.
Why would Jake have a place in New York when Maggie has a big house?
P.S. And he can pay a hotel when he feels like being alone.
Because he is an adult man, and it needs his spaces and his privacy.
Because it's Maggie and Peter's big house which they share with thier daughter and soon to be child # 2.
Jake has enough $$ to buy several houses. If I was Maggie and Peter I would tell Jake that he is 31 years old, stop mooching off of us and find your own place.
Maggie lives in a 2 or 3 story house, it's not like they are sharing a flat.
When he is to NY, it seems to often attend the zone of Union Station.
Does Maggie live in this zone?
1:06 PM - Jake has his own place for years and I'm sure you know that.
And I'm sure you've heard about families who like to spend time together.
Maggie & family are staying with Jake in LA - why shouldn't Jake do the same in New York?
"My phone started ringing at 5 o'clock in the morning, and there's that first batch of phone calls from people who are up that early in the morning," she said. "I remember [Jake] looked at me and said, 'Your phone is going to be like that all day.' It was true."
She added: "I thought about going to sleep after that first 5 o'clock rush of calls, and he said, 'Don't go to sleep. Who knows when this will happen again. Stay up. Have some coffee.' "
http://www.peoplestylewatch.com/people/stylewatch/package/article/0,,20332759_20344354,00.html
Does Maggie live in this zone?
Maggie lives in Brooklyn, Park Slope.
They are movie stars , they don't buy house, only because they have need, they buy houses and expensive cars, and other stuff because they can do it.
Maggie and Peter live in Brooklyn. You occasionally see tweets of Jake in Brooklyn but not like before, it's usally in Tribeca, LES/W. Village and Chinatown.
Maybe he got the hint@
You forgot that Jake uses subway in New York?
They are movie stars , they don't buy house, only because they have need, they buy houses and expensive cars, and other stuff because they can do it.
Maybe Jake has 2 houses in New york, but that doesn't mean he's using them while he's there. Smart people are investing $$$ to make $$$.
Honestly we don't know, because she was at Jake's home that night, and from the story it seems that Peter was not with them, it needs to say that Maggie not stay to Los Angeles the whole time that Jake stay to NY.
What we do know is that there were tons of tweets about Jake in Brooklyn during September, October, ... 2011.
Honestly we don't know, because she was at Jake's home that night, and from the story it seems that Peter was not with them...
Peter and Ramona were in LA with Maggie.
What we do know is that there were tons of tweets about Jake in Brooklyn during September, October, ... 2011.
even if there were for SK they would be all fake
And why Peter has not participated at the oscar coffee party?
Since when Special K's opinion matters? :)
And why Peter has not participated at the oscar coffee party?
Peter wasn't nominated.
Peter wasn't nominated
Not even Jake:)
Maggie was nominated on Feb 2, 2010
2010 > February 10 - Jake Out With Peter In Venice, CA
http://iheartjakemedia.com/thumbnails.php?album=1497
It is not a proof that Peter was at Jake's home that night or other nights
Why should anyone need to prove that? Maggie said she was at Jake's - you should believe her.
Oh and...
...I saw Jake Gyllenhaal yesterday at ABC Home downtown. He was as sexy as you would think. In fact, with that beard, he was even sexier.
Is Jake furnishing house to NY?
ABC Home is connected to ABC Kitchen, one of Jake's favorite restaurants in NY. There are two exits/entries to the restaurant; one from the street and one from the Home store.
Sure I believe to Meggie, and I am sure that when she and her family are in Los Angeles they stay from Jake,but it is a period of limited time however because they has their life and their house and family to Ny, instead Jake spends whole months to NY, and it is a man attractive and famous single,and maybe its life style is not compatible with any children.
1:58 PM - you missed interviews where Jake talked how much he loves Ramona? And why do you make it sound like Maggie, Ramona, Peter and Jake would be staying in some tiny apartment?
Judging from photos, Maggie's house has at least 5 bedrooms.
it is a man attractive and famous single,and maybe its life style is not compatible with any children
Life style? Drinking lots of coffee and bicycling?
it is a man attractive and famous single,and maybe its life style is not compatible with any children
Closeted celebrities don't take tricks home.
Sooner or later Jake will bring home someone, and not to play to monopoly, and if he can afford one house of his I don't see why he should not do it?
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Sooner or later Jake will bring home someone, and not to play to monopoly...
Why that couldn't be Maggie's house? I'm sure Jake's friends visited him there.
How do we know that Jake the night it doesn't make wild orgies?
There are a lot of places to have wild orgies in New York :)
Yeahhh I love New York!
Bitch.
LOL!
Where is BT5? Still in that Daycare?
Oh shit!!! I knew I forgot something!
LOL!!!
Heads up on something the loons are up to. Remember the crap about the truck and weather Jake was driving Austins truck? Well throw in the speculation of Mr and Mrs Soapy being kaput= they broke up but are on freindly terms and he is staying with Jake!
Where do I get this? I was a bit curious on why it was so quiet on OMG for the last 2 days so I went over to their other favorite site. No noe here, the OTH site.
Thereis some fangirl that claims this, some are scoffing pointing oit that they don't know her and they question her secret "source" and why she never commented on them before.
She has about 90 posts and you have to register to find out when she signed up, my bet is around Austin started.
I figured that some of the loons did when he started and some of their accounts wee purged because they were starting shit, but a ew probally remained.
Or it could be a FG making shit up based on the pics of them, any she leftin a huff (the thread) and said to PM her.
Why am I suspcious? Because the loons lurk there and the OTH FG's lurk on OMG.
PG and co usually posts or mentions stuff like that on OMG and yet nothing.
It could be that they are not too sure how to procede since Jake is in NY w/o Austy-poo
Hmmmm. PG hasn't posted since Sunday (I checked) and the others aren't even asking where's PG?
I remember earlier a fan claimed to see Austinin L.A., she posted it on OTH when he came back from TX. PG mentioned it and believed it(of course).
The girl that posted it did it yesterday, hmmmmmm.
Help, I'm lost!
Well throw in the speculation of Mr and Mrs Soapy being kaput= they broke up but are on freindly terms and he is staying with Jake!
As in "Sophia and Austin really dated" and "Jake and Austin are just friends ergo there are no BTs"?
Who's speculation / theory is this?
It could be that they are not too sure how to procede since Jake is in NY w/o Austy-poo
You are talking about OMG? There is only way for them - keep pretending that it is normal for a father to prefer eating out and fitness in New York to being with his "kids and husband".
How pathetic!How old is PG however? 14?
Well her tale would dispute the existance of BT's and would confirm that Austin and Sophia were together, so on it's face it doesn't sound like their MO but that may have been done to make the so-called info legit.
On OMG in at least 3 hours only 2 messages
And was pretty quiet over there yesterday and no PG either.
They could be PMing this girl as long as they register which I'm sure they already are.
Her tale doesn't fit thier fanfic and zi doubt she has any inside info as pointed out she never posted about them before, and their others there that claim to have insider info on other cast member.
She may just be spinning a tale based on the pics of them and is well aware that OMG lurks there, but still OMG went silent yesterday the day of the post and PG never menioned it.
Seems enough obvious that they is in total confusion with Jake in NY, out and about with super models and stuffs andAustin still in Los Angeles.
It is perhaps a way to have information on Sophia and Austin To Post BS, so that them are forced to answer
Others on that OTH thread are dubious and mentioned her abscense on the thread, you would think that she would have been posting there all the time.
If she is indeed a lon posting there then she would have to not mention the BT's or anything like that because they make fun of the loons there.
It may be an attempt to make "gossip" and have OTH be the "source" and not OMG.
The loons are now posting on the OTH forum
Moonlight341/othggNsn4EVA said...
The loons are now posting on the OTH forum
You were right therefore, she was one of them
the only way I can see the newest comments is to post a comment. weird.
really?
Nobody at OMG is posting at the OTH forums. If anyone from Jake's fandom is posting over there it is someone from here or GB.
Yeah right
Nobody at OMG is posting at the OTH forums. If anyone from Jake's fandom is posting over there it is someone from here or GB.
That doesn't even make sense. Why would someone from GB post on OTH forum that Austin and Sophia broke up? Wouldn't they want them to stay together? Nice try though on making it obvious now that OMGers DO post on OTH boards.
Nice try though on making it obvious now that OMGers DO post on OTH boards.
ah ah! very clever bravo!
I enjoyed the dicussion on Cynthia Nixon and was amazed to see many posts without anyone blasting OMG. Quess the loons are back.
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Its the posters from WDW posting on OTH!
It is directly Jake, that is posting on OTH!
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