Last year, I made a big deal about Ricky Martin’s coming out.
Revisiting the blog piece today, I realize I was somehow evoking the spirit of the It Gets Better Project. And while I continue extremely critical of this campaign (for many reasons, not the least are its ageist and classist narratives), I do believe the visualization of imagined possibility is important. For the young boy who, like myself in my early teen years, finds himself living in rural México, seeing a public figure with pop culture prominence spanning a few decades might help in the process of imagining and/or visualizing what being a Brown man who loves other men might look like.
Later in the year, I wrote a piece titled “How Ricky Martin is Changing the Face of Latino Fatherhood,” based on Ricky and his two sons' (Valentino and Matteo) appearance on the cover of People En Español’s father’s day issue. Given People En Español’s circulation, the image of an openly gay Latino father and his children, would be in countless Latina/o supermarkets and living rooms. Yet again, the image of Ricky’s queer Latinidad was helping us imagine a more expansive Latinidad that includes more of us.
With Ricky’s reemergence into the public light, we had the opportunity to see a queer Latino strike down racist stereotypes about inherent homophobia in our communities. Perhaps the best example was on The View when Ricky responded to Joy Behar’s suggestion that his culture kept him from coming out. In a moment that made him even more beautiful in my eyes, Ricky refuses to take the bait and simply states that people all over the world are struggling with their sexuality. (Thank you!)
This morning, Ricky's new album "Música + Alma + Sexo" hit stores and I typed faster than my queer fingers could to download it on iTunes. Refusing to shy away from the "sex" in sexuality by daring to have the word "Sexo" in the title of the album, I am excited to see where Ricky takes us as an openly queer historically sensual performer.
Watching two brown men in an affectionate embrace in the “Lo Mejor De Mi Vida Eres Tú” video, I’m pretty darn sure Ricky will continue to matter to me… and maybe a few other boys.
Source: Today, Ricky Martin matters more than ever by Lorenzo Herrera y Lozano
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«Oldest ‹Older 1601 – 1800 of 2198 Newer› Newest»Name calling again. Amazes me how no one can make a comment without constant ridicule.
Jake sticks out like a sore thumb in that setting. He is literally detached from the crowd around him. Of course, texting is ordinary, but not in that kind of venue. That's why you don't see a bunch of other people doing it.
That's why you don't see a bunch of other people doing it.
Probably because they all didn't receive a message around the very instant that the pic was taken. 5 seconds later, Jake was probably chatting with someone. Nothing special or sinister about that pic, unless you want there to be.
Name calling again. Amazes me how no one can make a comment without constant ridicule.
PrairieMary doesn't get a free pass after making ridiculous, sarcastic comments such as:
"Good dog, what a tough crowd it is here. Good thing it's not going to run the likes of me off. Watch out - I just might come back in a day or two with another opinion and thought."
^ LOL
Don't see anyone else around him doing the same. So it is a curious snapshot in time.
WTF? Please tell me you are joking.
Amazes me how no one can make a comment without constant ridicule..
Amazes me how some people can post 10 "it is interesting that Jake appears to be oblivious to his surroundings" comments, but refuse to explain how that could be significant and what they mean. I guess they hate being bullied into making sense and discussing their opinions.
Geez Louise.
Playground bullying transpired to blogging. Some people never grow up, do they? Stuck in a time warp.
Amazes me how some people can post 10 "it is interesting that Jake appears to be oblivious to his surroundings" comments, but refuse to explain how that could be significant and what they mean.
Maybe I didn't know exactly what it meant. All I know is it was curious looking to me.
I don't have a bachelors or a masters in Psychology. I'm an admin. I'm throwing the comment out there on this forum because it is a blog and that's what blogs are about.
Perhaps someone might lend some insight as to what they thought. Some don't see any significance; that's fine.
Someone else pointed out similar thoughts and it's interesting to read their point of view.
See, that's how a blog is supposed to work.
"Stop playing stupid" and throwing out people's personal names are just ways of trying to intimidate people from commenting and trying to take over control of someone's blog.
I'm throwing the comment out there on this forum because it is a blog and that's what blogs are about.
Sorry, I don't believe you, I'm sure you have an opinion, idea, reason to think that using a phone at the party is interesting behavior, but you don't want to share it.
Sorry, I don't believe you, I'm sure you have an opinion, idea, reason to think that using a phone at the party is interesting behavior, but you don't want to share it.
And your little dog, too!!!
Where?
Is this a blog about Jake being gay or a grade school playground with a bunch of bullies ganging up on every comment?
I just saw the pic of Jake at the Weinstein party and the comment about "Mr. In the Moment" is right on. Everyone who was anyone was probably there and it's rude to be at a party with movers and shakers and not be connecting with them, but with someone not even in the room. It's called professional etiquette. If someone sent him a text, he didn't need to respond that very moment. Yet, he seems like that was the most important thing in the world to do. I watched a 5 minute Starz Studio presentation back in November when Jake and Anne were promoting LaOD and Anne made the point that Jake never gets back to her when she texts him. And, she said he was a lousy texter. Looks like that's not the case when he's motivated. The question is who was inspiring him that night.
Looks like that's not the case when he's motivated. The question is who was inspiring him that night.
Hubby Austin of course. It all makes sense now.
Everyone who was anyone was probably there and it's rude to be at a party with movers and shakers and not be connecting with them...
That's bullshit and you know it.
Is it rude to visit toilet too, because that means taking a few minutes for yourself and not being connecting with movers and shakers?
I have to chime in here. 10:38 made some very good points but then here comes the troll bringing up Austin Nichols. Not the poster but the snarky troll. It's pretty apparent that more than Jake being gay, the idea of him being in a committed relationship is driving them nuts.
Now, back to the comment. I agree with your points. Particularly, since you said Jake's not really even into texting. The photo is curious given the venue like someone else said. Jake's image is so controlled these days that it is interesting whenever we can view a true candid moment.
LOL
Yes, texting is rude in a professional gathering like this, although your lack of awareness of this protocol may be because YOU are inherently uncouth yourself.
Fuck off 11:02 #1 with your "snarky troll" BS. We all know who the poster was alluding to - Austin. Why don't people just come out and say what they actually mean. Might it be that you will be called out on your BS theories? HMMMM
Is this a blog about Jake being gay or a grade school playground with a bunch of bullies ganging up on every comment?
People with some sense know that commenting is about sharing opinions. We could guess why PG is posting about using a phone, but we asked questions wanting to hear her explanation. But she probably agrees with you, that's bullying, you are to good for that, you deserve special treatment.
The photo is curious given the venue like someone else said.
Huhg??? What is interesting about using a phone at the party?
Anne made the point that Jake never gets back to her when she texts him. And, she said he was a lousy texter. Looks like that's not the case when he's motivated.
You do NOT know what Jake was doing with his phone, I'm sure you have heard about smartphones.
Yes, texting is rude in a professional gathering like this
LOL, more silly bullshit. It was a PARTY, NOT professional gathering.
Yet, he seems like that was the most important thing in the world to do.
So? What should we conclude from that? That Jake checks out his phone all the time? Something else?
So what happened to the theory of why Austin stopped tweeting soon after Jake finished presenting? We all know what the inference was: That the two hubbies met up afterwards. LOL! No Austin to be seen in those pics.
Oh dear God. A few sightings of Jake partying with Adam, a mention of a motorcycle, Austin in Indonesia and a pic from a GG party in Jan. w/o Austin's dismembered ear in the background has the loons in a tizzy.
Also Ted's latest "bombshell" which must have pissed them off.
They aren't concerned about the texting they are just trying to deflect.
Jake sure doesn't sound like he has BT's at home.
Hey! Maybe Jake was texting some paps begging them not to publish the pics they have of him and his BT's at Disneyworld!
Wow. These trolls are now telling people to f*ck off and only want to talk about Austin. Hmmmm. If you put the two concepts together it looks like maybe they are a little jealous of Jakey-poo. Maybe they want some of his man on man action.
What did OMG say about Ted's "Jake is looking for someone special"?
Oh dear God. A few sightings of Jake partying with Adam, a mention of a motorcycle, Austin in Indonesia and a pic from a GG party in Jan. w/o Austin's dismembered ear in the background has the loons in a tizzy.
What is wrong with you? No meds this morning?
It's no big deal. People do this all the time. What used to be rude is now, in today's society, acceptable behavior and par for the course. Texting at a public gathering isn't the only example.
You mean the same Adam Levine who says that people should stop thinking that Jake is gay? Yeah we really care about that douche bag.
Just to point out how overly-romanticized a J&A pairing is, it's unlikely that after 8 years, J&A are going to be dropping everything to answer a text or phone call (unless one of the BT's has an emergency), or gettng whisker burn like young lovers of a few months. Gimme a break!
It's no big deal. People do this all the time.
Perhaps. But Anne says that Jake never gets back to her. That tells me that whoever was trying to contact Jake that night, was worthy of a real time response. Couldn't wait until later or the next day. Just curious. This is a blog about Jake and people's observations of his comings and goings. The fact that pouncing trolls won't allow any discussion to take place tells me there's some element of what Jake is doing that is bothering them.
Poor Jaustaloons can't even say what they mean LOL. They pose ridiculous questions like why is Jake on the phone in that pic, or why did Austin stop tweeting at a particular time during the AA's. The answers are obvious from a jaustaloon point of view.
Funny that no-one has answered the question (asked six times) re what is so special about Jake playing/using his phone. Typical.
Maybe Jake was texting Reese to wish her well.
"The fact that pouncing trolls won't allow any discussion to take place"
LOL. More BS. You have been asked several times why you think the pic is extraordinary, but still no answer.
Is the troll stopping you from posting? No.
Jake was lining up his next gig with the Banana Boyz
What did OMG say about Ted's "Jake is looking for someone special"?
I don't remember what OMG said about it, but Ted was obviously being snarky and calling Toothy out with that Dear Ted Letter. Making fun of Jake's recent interviews where he's trying to be all private now and looking for that certain someone to settle down with and have a family. Remember Ted ended his statement with something like, "Get it, Tooth?" Like, "I see what you're trying to do Jake. But, it's not going to work."
LOL. More BS. You have been asked several times why you think the pic is extraordinary, but still no answer.
There have been answers, but you want a certain specific answer, obviously. Sorry if people don't want to play with you.
peegee and the loons hate Adam and now jake was out partying with him, LOL!
Jake may have not returned texts from Anne but since he is constantly on his cell I et he texts others constantly.
So he ignored Anne's texts, big deal.
Someone introduced the photo because they had come upon it on the Internet. I'm glad they did. It's an interesting glimpse of a candid moment. If Jake doesn't text much, it's even more fun to think about who it was. He's not only into whoever it is, but notice how everyone around him is giving him space...like they understand it's a private moment. The possibilities are limitless.
:-)
Jake may have not returned texts from Anne but since he is constantly on his cell I et he texts others constantly.
In the interview, Jake sheepishly confessed he wasn't much of a texter. So he didn't argue with Anne.
...or jake was bored and pretended to text?
i did that a few tmes...pretend to phone or text... :(
Don't believe Jake is pretending to text. He definitely looks like he is into what he's doing. Don't think he's that good of an actor. LOL!
Who said it was texting, it could be email. Maybe his mom emailed/text him that he looked good on TV. People check all the time, no matter where they are. Is it rude, yes. People still do it. Maybe, it was the 1 minute during the whole night he was looking and that’s when the picture was taken.
Maybe it was Michelle’s phone and he was looking at pictures of Matilda? We will never know.
^^Exactly, we will never know.
...or jake was bored and pretended to text?
Jake? The UBERextrovert. Don't think so. Too many people to interact with for him to get bored.
If it was Michelle's phone I think she would be looking at the pictures with him.
^^Exactly, we will never know.
Bravo. Commonsense and logic. :)
If Jake doesn't text much, it's even more fun to think about who it was.
How do you know that Jake is texting? You do realize that call / message / e-mail might be from his mother or agent?
Is it rude, yes.
Not rude at all, that was a PARTY.
"peegee and the loons hate Adam and now jake was out partying with him, LOL!"
More name calling.
Thanks! It's a good laugh.
Who said it was texting, it could be email.
Exactly. or could be the internet. He was probs curious as to how many BTs he now has at last count, and checking out OMG for shits and giggles.
How do you know that Jake is texting? You do realize that call / message / e-mail might be from his mother or agent?
Yup. Jake mentioned in interviews that his mother e-mails him all kinds of stuff.
It could be anything really.
OK, let's presume Jake was texting to someone very dear to him - could be his (new) boyfriend or fuck body.
Most likely it was Jenny Lewis. He took her to the GG's but they mixed and mingled with others according to reports since they only went as freinds.
Probably texting her to find out where she was so the chauffer could drop her off!
Jake paid taxi for me!
Your Highness is getting great reviews so far. It'll premiere a week after SC. I'm so curious which film will manage to get the pole position. I think Franco & Portman will beat SC b.o. wise. Surprisingly most of my guy pals know about Your Highness than Source Code. Color me surprised.
http://www.crazycritics.com/page/your-highness-early-movie
Jenny said...
Jake paid taxi for me!
Bitch! All he gave me was busfare back to my hotel after that US Weekly photo shoot!
Your Highness is getting great reviews so far.
I liked the trailer very much, but didn't expect great reviews.
So Natalie Portman only did 5% of the Dancing…This is supposed to be important why?
http://www.awardsdaily.com/2011/03/so-natalie-portman-only-did-5-of-the-dancing-this-is-supposed-to-be-important-why/
I thought people knew that Natalie is an actress, not ballerina :)
Actually no halfway intelligent person honestly believed Natalie could become a professional dancer in just a year, right?
That's such a non story.
"I thought people knew that Natalie is an actress, not ballerina :)"
Exactly. Now some acting as if they were betrayed by Natalie and her people is ridic. LOL.
I wonder if any poster on WFT2 believed Natalie did all of the dancing in the movie? I bet no one believed that.
For those who watched Annette Bening's (sp?), Michelle's and Nicole Kidman's performance as well, do you think Natalie did the best acting job and deserved to win? I only watched Natalie in BS. I thought she looked great in the movie. Still don't get the guys' fuzz over Mila Kunis, she is pretty in a cheap girl kind of way and a so, so actress. Whatever.
I don't think you can compare movie roles like that and that is the reason why Oscars and other awards don't matter and don't reflect real acting quality.
citizenx103: Jake Gyllenhaal pretenting to be a hero in a movie. Sorry, i don't buy it. Get back to your weird rabbits!
about 1 hour ago
Saturday, 26 March
Then we stopped by The Spare room, where Jake Gyllenhaal was bowling with Adam Levine OMG.
http://beverlyhillsbitch.blogspot.com/2011/03/my-night-in-2-paragraphs.html
Is Your Highness opening the same time as Source Code?
I think I fell slightly in love with Gemma Aterton...and Jake Gyllenhaal's facial hair. I really want a beard...like a Jedi...or Santa.
23 Mar via web
Your Highness - release date 8 April 2011 (USA)
Everyone who was anyone was probably there and it's rude to be at a party with movers and shakers and not be connecting with them, but with someone not even in the room. It's called professional etiquette. If someone sent him a text, he didn't need to respond that very moment. Yet, he seems like that was the most important thing in the world to do.
YOU are joking, are you not?
People, especially young people have absolutely NO etiquette at all in business or person settings anymore, if they ever had, since technologys advances with cell phones, blackberrys, etc.
People tend to think that everything is important. Everyting such as a "What are you doing" is responded to when people are in church, meetings, movies and social gaterings and Jake is doing what most people do these days. It's really disgusting They act as if they can't take 2 hours out of their day away from a cell phone. And I believe some do this because they don't know how to socialize one on one or the scary part is, they don't want to.
Jake was at the party, informal gathering, and it is perfectly OK to use your phone during your fun time.
I know that 6:29. I don't think Jake is being rude because it could have been a minute or so reading text, e-mail, internet etc..
Just taking aback at some post of why they are pointing a finger at Jake when most of the posters here probably would do the same thing in that setting.
but my point at 6:25 stands, that people can't put their cell away or turn them off for 2 hours in important settings as if the world will fall apart if they are not connected in all settings.
ie saw someone talking on a cell in broadway Play. Over $100. tickets and being rude because they can't turn the damn thing off 2 hours for a ShOw. How fucking rude is that?
what you do is tell IMPORTANT people in your life I'm gonna turn the cell off for 2/3 hours because of Important situation, I'll turn it back on when I'm finished.
Then others will know not to bother you for a while instead of calling with:
"What you doing KNOW"! LOL
^^ NOW
^^Yes. I see people on the phone texting while driving, constantly checking messages at movies, shopping, exercising, there's never a break. Obsessive. It just tells others that they are not more important than the texter, and if you are on the road, it's not only insulting, it's dangerous!
That said, Jake could have been caught in an off moment making a quick call or check.
These types of parties could be like civilian work parties, where you are always on display in a dog and pony show. :)
6:43 PM - I agree, theatre, cinema, church ... should be cell off zones.
It's all ages too - I've seen everyone doing this - old, young, in-between. I've seen beautifully mannered younger people, and incredibly rude older people, so it's nothing to do with age. You just have to take it in stride. j Ettiquette is passe!
Is Your Highness opening the same time as Source Code?
^^
YH is coming out a week later.
I agree it's now all ages. it used to be younger people mostly. I stand corrected, I see older jerks sometimes who are more rude than younger people used to be. Thanks
You're welcome. :)
Hey, maybe those young jerks grew up to be old jerks! ;)
The troll should be asking herself why after almost 2 years post Reese you can still count on one hand the number of times Jake has been seen out with a woman. And most of those times were either just friends accompanying him somewhere with their boyfriends permission or were in a group with others present. And boyfriends only give such permission when the man is gay and is not a straight male.
Oh really.
Some of you straight battle axes ought to be asking yourselves why it's so important to you.
The troll should be asking herself why after almost 2 years post Reese you can still count on one hand the number of times Jake has been seen out with a woman.
The funny thing is that Jake has been seen even less times with Austin Nichols. And don't give me that Leadville fiction.
LOL!!
^^
See? Once again, it's not even a Jaustin fan who brings up Austin.
LOL! You're the one obsessed with Jake and Austin. No one was even talking about him but it's his name that right away drips off of your lips like you just can't stop it.
LOL!!
You're the one obsessed with Jake and Austin.
Just because 8:30 PM mentioned Austin makes him obsessed?
No one was even talking about him but it's his name that right away drips off of your lips like you just can't stop it.
You finally worked me out. I just can't stop thinking about Austin's third nipple. SLURP.
I'm so jealouz the 12 BT's get to suck on that third tit.
Just because 8:30 PM mentioned Austin makes him obsessed?
yes
Personal and vulgar attacks again. Wow these trolls are truly worked up. I guess they didn't like Jake's dressing room make out session before he came out on Kimmel (with the flush red neck). You do know that post-orgasmic flush can last up to one hour afterwards. And, Jake did seem like he was on a natural high, serene and fulfilled. And, we do know that Austin was still in LA. Talk about afterglow.
What a fuc**** stretch 11:31. You have just fantasized a whole scenerio of Jake and Austin making out in the dressing room before the Kimmel show. And all because Austin "should" be back in LA?
WTF LOL
What a vivid imagination you have.
You are aware it's more wishful thinking or a dream state you're in don't you?
Talk about FairyTale Land.
WoW You would put a 4 year old to shame.
LOL
I guess they didn't like Jake's dressing room make out session before he came out on Kimmel (with the flush red neck). You do know that post-orgasmic flush can last up to one hour afterwards. And, Jake did seem like he was on a natural high, serene and fulfilled. And, we do know that Austin was still in LA. Talk about afterglow.
Sucking on Austy's third nip more like it. his lips were rather pursed.
Jake was caught making out with his boyfriend in a dressing room before a talk show during BBM marketing so why not now.
That's all very nice, but that kind of response is about 3 x more common in women than men. If you had any real experience, other than consulting wikipedia, you'd know that. And slash. Jake must have been hot under the collar for another reason. Maybe Henry showed up in the dressing room for a quickie. ;)
Coming here and addressing people as trolls isn't the most polite thing I've ever read either.
All of this stuff is very cute, tee-hee, like giggling high school girls. But it's not based in reality. Sure, it's maybe .9999999 percent possible, but not likely. And anything that remotely contradicts it isn't discussed. Like Indonesia. But the little tiles must be in the constant care of someone else. Sure, it's .9999999 percent possible. I don't really care who Jake is with, and I'm not invested in it. I follow it sometimes because it's interesting, but I don't go into a funk because of what Ted says about it. He seems to be backtracking.
OMG, 11:31PM, I hope you're being sarcastic because that's just embarrassing. Afterglow? Freaking afterglow? Someone is reading too many Harlequin Romances.
Sorry to tell you 6:46am, but I'm afraid to say that 11:31pm was being completely serious, drooling and salivating about 'afterglow' (lol). This is the mindset of the garden variety of jaustaloon.
I don't know. I haven't seen any reasonable explanation for his extremely reddened neck.
It was that crimson from the outset of the interview.
We know that Tooth, according to Ted, has had fun in the dressing rooms before. It's part of his arousal mechanism that he loves it dangerous. Isn't that what so many love about Toothy?
Chances high that Austin was in L.A.; he screwed up with his recycle pick twitpic.
I know Iam not dismising til I hear a better, reasonable explain.
If you had any real experience, other than consulting wikipedia, you'd know that. And slash.
LOL LMAO!!
laugh all you want.
But Austin says he flew out on the 24th. If you were leaving for 2 weeks to Indonesia and only had 24 hours with your guy, I wouldn't put it past the 2 to be grabbing it in a dressing room.
Pretty hot, I think.
Hot, hot, hot. Phwoarrrrrr
I put Ted's BI about TT in the dressing room under him getting caught making out in a car, the confidentiality clause, the coke and the hooker sotries and the alley and BT shit under fanfic.
He has taken IMO a legit incident and has embelleshied the rest. If those above incidents actually happened then we would have heard about it from other "sources", since Ted is the only source, then it's BS.
Jaxson was fed TT BI's and he embellished, Iand used the TT files and embelleished.
The redness around his neck/ears didn't appear to be natural, aka flushed, more like it was some tempp. rash due to some type of treatment or medication.
You loons are willing to spin any fasnfic to deflect that Jake was out partying with his friends and not home taking care of his kids.
You know that there are no kids.
Of course you would think that was hot 8:42, I'm sure you wrote or read a similar scenerio involving Jake and proably Heath...
poor 9.01 babbler. can't stand the fact that Ted was right, and Jake did the dirty with Austin before the Kimmell show.
But Austin says he flew out on the 24th. If you were leaving for 2 weeks to Indonesia and only had 24 hours with your guy...
After Puerto Rico weekend I had to take care of my garbage, recycling and Sophia's plants in NC, so I had only 24 hours for Jake before going on the holiday!
November 15, 2005
Two To-the-Limit Blind Vices
Toothy Tile and Petunia Pickle-Pop really should start dating. I mean, it would be a fake get-together, but how many real ones are left in this town? Like Jude Law and Sienna Miller are going to last. Like they got back together because they just feel so right for each other, in the end--current flicks to sell be damned!
So, Toothy and Petunia are pushing the upchuck-and-saliva-covered envelope like you would not believe. Or maybe you would?
Ladies first. Movie-stah Toothy--who's been playing with whether or not to come out the closet for so long now, readers think I'm just makin' this sitch up (I'm not)--recently did a chat show for his latest pic, Casablanca Cuckold. You'll never guess what a network worker bee caught him doing in the privacy of his dressing room before taping...
No, not fornicating (you dirty busybodies), just tonguing his b-f, that's all. And this little love licking spread through the studio faster than a pink-slip distribution list at ABC!
Dear Ted:
I see from your Two To-the-Limit Blind Vices that Toothy Tile was spotted smooching some guy right before promoting his latest flick. Well, I just checked the movies that have been released lately. Obviously, Toothy must be 50 Cent, 'cause his new movie Get Rich or Die Tryin' just came out. Mr. Cent has some 'splainin' to do!
Jason
Dear Det. Slang:
Perhaps. But not regarding my Blind Vice that has Toothy tonguin' the b-f right before a talk-show appearance. Nice try. Wrong genre,really. In several ways. Think more out there, as it were.
The old slashy girls here are worst than the brand new twinky gay boys here who thinks every gay man loves Madonna. At least they're young and brand new to things (now), and all things pink and gay are fun, but the old slashers should really be writing Gay porn. They're wasting their time here.
Get a clue. Get paid for it and stop wasting time here getting flustered on hopes and wishes and dreams.
Austin in Italy and now in Indonesia - have Jake ever traveled outside US just to see the world? I can recall only business visits and meeting family abroad.
If it had been a rash, he would have had it when he arrived. Make up staff would have taken care of it, you would think.
Look how noticeable the flush is. It's undeniable.
Gay men don't post here, just slash fangirls.
Poor loon, Ted has been lying to you and you know that there was no quicky in L.A., you are just pissed that he is in Indonesia.
Ted gave you a shoutout that he lies back in dec. 2009 right after the breakup.
Remember when Jake's online fans found out that jake's Mom and Reese were friended on FB?
Then after the breakup they went back and saw that they were still friended and harrassed his Mom to de-friend her?
Well go look at a letter posted, probably from one of the babbling loons that Mama G de-friended Reese.
Ted responded that yes she did because he checked which was a lie, because if he did then he would see that they were still friended as they are still are as of today.
The loons even pointed to Ted that she was using her real name.
So they know he lied, it may have been a test to confirm it. They never posted that letter on OMG or discussed it but it was here and some thought it was odd because Ted was clearly lying.
The loons hate that Jake is hanging out with Levine because he tends to hang out with skanky models, he is dating one now and they "fear" that he will hook Jake up with some skinny model chick as long as they aren't married.
Back in the day I read some Jake/Austin slash. I can't say they did it for me, too boring.
10:18: Over on WDW, Kate says that there is a quick shot of jake pouring drinks before he csme on stage. I don't know if she was joking, I didn't have time to watch the clip . I know that sometime people request things like wine in their green room so who knows. Him pouring drinks may be a gag but if true that would explain the reddish look.
Get a clue.
I would rather defer to your ignorance and homophobia since you're the poster child for cluelessnes.
Believe me, no one is getting flustered, except you. Here you are at a JiG blog and you can't stand the thought of Jake getting a little nookie in a dressing room. I just inserted Austin Nichols's name because I know the thought of these two men having a loving and lasting relationship is beyond your shallow brain to fathom.
What's the matter, sweet pea? Does the thought of two sexually aroused men making out disgust you? Seems like you might be on the wrong blog. And, talk about getting paid...well, let's just say someone must be compensating you because you are on this site 24/7 harassing posters. That, or you truly are deranged. Maybe, it's a little bit of both. An Aristotelian compromise, as it were.
you know that there was no quicky in L.A., you are just pissed that he is in Indonesia.
If Jake is gay why on earth would Austin or Jake go to such extremes as do the do in a dressing room before taping? loads of people hanging around. This does not sound like a hiding gay man (J or A). Hell, Jake or Austin could hook up with any hot available call boy, or hunk who just wants to get busy anywhere than a studio dressing room.
Austin is overseas and Jake in the states. Just that simple.
Him pouring drinks may be a gag but if true that would explain the reddish look.
And how would pouring drinks make Jake's entire throat flaming red for the entire length of the interview with Kimmel?
I just inserted Austin Nichols's name because I know the thought of these two men having a loving and lasting relationship is beyond your shallow brain to fathom.
^^ and perhaps make your pantys Wet!
I't wasn't WDW. And if he was making and pouring drinks, why wouldn't he drink as well too? Who would stop him? It wouldn't be the first time an actor threw back a few befor an interview. It would explain why he was babbling more than usual and BTW, his neck wasn't the only thing flushed, his cheeks were a bit too.
BBMISwear said...
I'm so glad those in the states have the Jimmy Kimmel Show interview available to watch on line - it's a great one! I have it recorded and must watch it again (and again) - it's THAT good! I don't know if it shows up on the clips but there is a quick shot of Jake backstage behind a bar making and pouring drinks for people - I love it! And even though the content of the interview was fabulous and there is so much to focus on I have to add that those pants he is wearing - *THUD*
Is it tonight yet?! I need to watch it again and soon!! :-)
24 March 2011 18:24
Toothy likes danger. Watch Love and Other Drugs. Jake said he and Anne talked about what turned them on and there are several scenes where they are "doing it" hot and fast in a public area. Like when Jaime comes out of that little backroom nook, where Maggie works, and the person behind the counter is standing right there obviously having heard the whole thing.
Never mind how Ted has repeatedly...and I mean repeatedly indicated that Toothy is a risk taker. He likes to take chances sexually. Part of his arousal mechanism. An essential core of the Toothy saga.
I've heard of the face and chest flushing during sex, but never the neck. But perhaps Jake is like a thermometer; the redness in his cheeks disappeared as the temperature dropped, as it were, but not in time for showtime on Jimmy Kimmel. LoL
If Jake was getting nookie in a dressing room, someone from the Kimmel show would have spilled already.
You are taking Ted's fanfic from 2005 and applying it here because you are pissedthat Austin is out of the country.
Jake's neck and cheeks were flushed because he took a few drinks before hand, he was seen briefly pouring and making drinks before he was interviewed, he probably drank it real fast too, LOL!
Ted proved he lies based on that FB comment
9:08AM, wtf are you talking about? You do know that Blind Item about the dressing room was from six years ago, right? It has nothing to with the Kimmel show the other night. Jeez, talk about reaching.
Yeah, I saw Jake pouring drinks. So what? As I said, a post orgasmic flush can last up to an hour. Jake goofing off right before going on stage wouldn't have anything to do with what he might have done thirty minutes before.
The idea of 2 hot men having sex in a dressing room is slash fangirl fanfic, it makes them hot.
When people point this out they are called homophobes. They are the real homophoes, they think all gay men want to do is fuck and suck 24/7 even while promoting a movie, they just can't help it!
I think ted is the one that likes taking risks and having sex in alleys, I think he is talking about himself, it would explain why his relationship went down the toilet.
10:45, you are the one reaching. You took dome 2005 fanfic and applied it to 2011 because it involved a talk show as well, simple fangirl.
Meanwhile he was seen off stage pouring and making drinks which. You don't think that he didn't take a few swigs before he was interviewed? He looked like someone that took a quick drink fast, which would explain the reddish flush on his neck ears and cheeks.
People behind the scenes of Kimmel woud be gossiping if he was having sex in his dressing room, him taking a few drinks would be know big deal since that would be common.
Ted lies, se the FB incident.
9:08AM, wtf are you talking about? You do know that Blind Item about the dressing room was from six years ago, right? It has nothing to with the Kimmel show the other night. Jeez, talk about reaching.
Talk about being an idiot. I happened to post that because it is another example of Toothy's risk taking behavior. Kirsten Dunst even talked about how they tried to spice up their relationship by doing it in public places. Remember that story of them in a London dressing room making out? I didn't realize there really are a ton of homophobic fangirls around here. Of course, we know that Jack the Troll is never far behind. Toothy's daring do is part of his legend. Amazes me how some people here now don't want to view him as a sensual, adventurous and hot blooded man. Kinda of sad really. Because that's part of Jake's charm.
Did you all forget Jake pretty much mocked the idea that he's gay and has a boyfriend on the show? Yeah, it makes perfect sense he would have sex in the dressing room with Austin. LOL.
Of course the thought of two hot men having sex in a dressing room is hot. Just because some may not believe it doesn't mean they don't like the idea. Or giggle about it like school girls.
You just can't win with this subject; some men don't like the idea of "marrying them off" so as to fit with a heteronorming idea of two men in a relationship, others want that and to get married and have kids.
Simple question - how would Austin get in the studio?
Sorry - how would Austin get in the building and dressing room?
Oh please, after 8, 9, 10 years with the same guy, doing it in the dressing room is going to lose a little adventure and risk.
Meanwhile he was seen off stage pouring and making drinks which. You don't think that he didn't take a few swigs before he was interviewed? He looked like someone that took a quick drink fast, which would explain the reddish flush on his neck ears and cheeks.
No way. That would not explain Jake's neck staying red for over 11minutes (the actual length of the interview). Don't be ridiculous. And, his cheeks, including his entire face are not red at all so now you're just making stuff up to fit your fantasy. Talk about making up sh*t.
Did you all forget Jake pretty much mocked the idea that he's gay and has a boyfriend on the show? Yeah, it makes perfect sense he would have sex in the dressing room with Austin. LOL.
Yes, it would. His mistake was adding that his manager and agent thought he was having a gay moment too. That's why they excused themselves from the dressing room. They obviously knew Jake was gay and acted accordingly by wanting to give them a private moment. See what happens when you lie, Jake.
Oh please, after 8, 9, 10 years with the same guy, doing it in the dressing room is going to lose a little adventure and risk.
Now who doesn't understanding human sexuality. Don't be absurd. I feel sorry for you if you've never had that kind of relationship. Your loss.
Kirstin's comment actually made me think twice - because at their ages then, you don't need any extra spice. It's way hot enought the way it is.
Kirsten Dunst even talked about how they tried to spice up their relationship by doing it in public places. Remember that story of them in a London dressing room making out?
LOL. just like Jake dropped his load in Chinny the cum dumpster in the plane toilet midflight.
Sorry - how would Austin get in the building and dressing room?
Through a back door entrance/exit. Just like they have done for years. And, if you don't think Kimmel doesn't know that Jake is gay, you're the one kidding yourself.
Remember when Jake's online fans found out that jake's Mom and Reese were friended on FB?
Whatever does this have to do with anything?
It doesn't. Has nothing to do with anything.
IMO, you do it in public places because you are so turned on by each other, you can't keep your hands off each other, simple as that. Not because you need to "spice" things up, or to satisfy an exhibishionist fetish. It's automatice and doesn't require planning or thinking about. This doesn't last forever, as anyone in a long-term relationship knows. But long-term pairings have other benefits.
Remember when Jake's online fans found out that jake's Mom and Reese were friended on FB?
someone's really running out of arguments for anything
LOL. just like Jake dropped his load in Chinny the cum dumpster in the plane toilet midflight.
Well, there would be a big difference between these two stories, which you are purposely ignoring. Aren't you?
One was obviously PR generated (some anonymous source--fellow passenger-- allegedly saw Jake and Reese go to the bathroom one after the other to join the mile high club). A perfect story to help push the Reeke fiction that a lot of people weren't buying.
While the other Jake memory was actually a personal recollection from a Kirsten Dunst interview. Big, big difference.
Their pictures were really great, Jake and Kirsten. The London ones. :)
"which you are purposely ignoring. Aren't you?"
If you say so.
They have bedhead too, in those. :)
Even slash has lost its charm for me now. I read the stories now for story content. Like any porn, it gets a little boring.
Stop playing dumb loon, you know that Ted lied about the FB incident, it was brought up as an example of his lying.
Ted used the stories about Jake and Kiki having sex in public that were circulating around 2003-2004 and applied them to his fanfic about Toothy in 2005 and changed it to parked cars and dressing rooms. If either incidenst which were both public actually happened, we would have heard about it , why is it that Ted is the only gossiper people run to when TT does shit like that, same with the BS about the alley, the stripper and the confidential agreement.
Long term partners with children in showbiz and in the closet don't go around having sex in dressing rooms, they would have it at home.
Use your noggins for once, it's fanfic
Not because you need to "spice" things up, or to satisfy an exhibishionist fetish. It's automatice and doesn't require planning or thinking about. This doesn't last forever, as anyone in a long-term relationship knows. But long-term pairings have other benefits.
I agree about the Kirsten interview. It was one more clue that Jake wasn't turned on by her and was trying to find ways to get the juices flowing. However, I have been in a relationship for 15 years and we still do like to do it in interesting places. It's fun and erotic. By the way, I am a man and my partner is too so maybe that's the difference. Maybe women aren't as turned on by that kind of thing. Believe me though, a lot of gay men are. And, even in long term relationships.
Long term partners with children in showbiz and in the closet don't go around having sex in dressing rooms, they would have it at home.
Don't be such a prude.
If they are dead set on hiding their relationship from the public, why suddenly throw caution to the wind? If you want to write fanfic, have Jake go secretly to Indonesia after the Jimmy Kimmel show, and meet up and have sex.
Good comment, 11:28.
Not only that, but a lot of people have certain scenarios that turn them on and that does not change.
Jake's happens to be a chance of danger. It helps get him off. You don't just turn that off after so many years. It's part of his sexual make up.
People who are married and have kids have sex in all kinds of ways. I almost can't believe the stereotypes that are coming out here. I would think WFT2 visitors would be a little more sexually aware and liberated.
Through a back door entrance/exit. Just like they have done for years.
What?
Ever heard about thing called security?
Austin could have entered the building ONLY if he was with Jake or Jake asked permission for him to be there.
Jake's happens to be a chance of danger. It helps get him off. You don't just turn that off after so many years. It's part of his sexual make up.
I agree, totally.
Yes, but you always have Jake and Austin doing it in the dressing room, after awhile, they'd like to try something else?
Personally, I don't know anything about Jake's sexual makeup. Lucky you if you do.
Yeah, and I know of a few who ran off with a free-spirit once their wives/husbands were bogged down with kids and jobs and home repairs, and... etc. and didn't have that sexual freedom anymore.
Ever heard about thing called security? Austin could have entered the building ONLY if he was with Jake or Jake asked permission for him to be there.
You are kidding me, aren't you? Kimmel knows Jake is gay. So does Conan, so does a bunch of people in both LA and NY and other places Jake frequents. People who don't want to be seen make arrangements all the time to enter and leave restaurants, public venues, etc. It's not like this is the first time these guys have been on the downlow. They definitely are experts by now.
They stayed married, alright, but indulged in risky behavior with other people, risking getting caught, doing it away from home, etc.
Jake would never take Austin to studio recording after hiding like crazy. So how did Austin enter the building?
Kimmel knows Jake is gay. So does Conan
SO WHAT? What about people who work there?
Yes, but you always have Jake and Austin doing it in the dressing room, after awhile, they'd like to try something else?
Who always has Jake doing it in the dressing room? I don't remember WFT talking about this until Jake turned up with a crimson red neck on the Kimmel show last week. Then someone posted a Ted blind item from 2005 which indicated that Toothy has been known to do this kind of thing in the past. I hardly call that an "always" event.
I agree, with whoever introduced the topic, that making out before the show is the best explanation I've heard for Jake's flush. It's also driving some people crazy to think of Jake being so sexual and playful. Why are you people even here? I think it's hot.
SO WHAT? What about people who work there?
Obviously, they would arrange the meetup to minimize the number of people to see him enter the building. Moreover, people who work on shows like Kimmel, Leno, Conan, etc. know not to talk about what celebrities might be doing behind closed doors. You really don't think Jake is the only one who has secrets do you? I bet many dressing rooms could tell a tale or two about a lot of guests.
I think people are missing the point, deliberately. Of course, sex doesn't end after the early years, but it does change. It's still exciting and erotic, and new things are fun, but not like in the beginning, because it's a given and it isn't new anymore. You need new ideas to keep it fun, it's not spontaneously fun. Doing it in the dressing room may not have the same thrill it once did. The divorce rate statistics say it all. I just heard 50 percent divorce, of the remaining 50 percent, 30 are not really happy and just slog it out until they die. :)
You would think all of the beautiful people in HW would be a microcosm of marital bliss, but it's even worse for them.
Not saying that their aren't a few lucky ones who manage to overcome that. Interesting that they are all on WFT2!
Jake would never take Austin to studio recording after hiding like crazy. So how did Austin enter the building?
Oh, yes he would.
Of course sex is not like it was in the beginning of a relationship. If people are lucky is far better. You know what turns your partner on and make sure to give them what they like. Ted's blind item about Toothy and b-f was from November, 2005. Jake and Austin have been together since 2002 (The Day After Tomorrow). So that would have been well over 3 years and apparently they still got off doing it in a dressing room.
I like the excitement of not knowing when you will see your partner, so sex isn't nearly as good as it is in the beginning because it becomes a given once you are settled and/or married. It doesn't take long for a couple to learn what turns each other on and to give it to them.
Jake would never take Austin to studio recording after hiding like crazy.
Oh, yes he would.
Why would Jake do that?
Jake has no problem with being seen with Austin? Since when?
So that would have been well over 3 years and apparently they still got off doing it in a dressing room.
Apparently? There is NO reson to belive Austin was anywhere near that dressing room, no reason at all.
No one said that Jake wanted to openly be seen with Austin. The theory is that they were in the dressing room and things got carried away. Jake's a sexy guy. And, I bet he always gets anxious right before he goes on a talk show. All that ramped up energy might need to be released. Not so far-fetched to have Austin provide a little tension relief.
I like separations, esp. when my husband is gone on a business trip and comes home on the weekends. Wheeeee!
Who says people can't be backstage? There have been sightings of celebs backstage at shows before. Wasn't Jake supposed to be seen backstage at one of Swift's appearances somewhere? SNL or something?
People act like this is a far out concept.
There is NO reson to belive Austin was anywhere near that dressing room
Sure there is. Austin was in LA and he probably just wanted to give his man a proper "send off." I'm assuming when they enjoy being together. Jake likes and trusts Kimmel. That's why he continues to do his show.
^ "I'm assuming they enjoy being together."
The theory is that they were in the dressing room and things got carried away.
You can't just walk into the sudio and dressing room, Austin could go there ONLY after Jake or Jake's people asked permission for him to accompany Jake, so that would mean Jake had no problem with being known that Austin is with him.
That would be correct. I'm sure Jake is proud of Austin and many people in the industry know they are together.
Jake is so hot, yet devilishly devious. I wouldn't put it past him that the story he told about the BAFTAS was actually a secret shout-out to Austin, as Austin watched the show from Jake's dressing room.
Austin was in LA and he probably just wanted to give his man a proper "send off."
Austin spent weekend in PR and stoped by NC to take care of his garbage - he obviously didn't care about giving "his man" a proper "send off" before Indonesia.
Of course, Austin didn't just walk in off the street. Jake told Kimmel that Austin would be there. It's called making discreet arrangements beforehand. It's done all the time.
Austin spent weekend in PR and stoped by NC to take care of his garbage
What does that have to do with Austin being in LA on March 23? I'll answer that one. Absolutely, nothing.
I'm sure Jake is proud of Austin and many people in the industry know they are together.
Is that why Jake never goes out with Austin or takes ex-beards to industry events, because he is proud of him?
Well, maybe they did, esp. with Austin off to Indonesia. However, I don't think it's really that risky to do it in a star's private dressing room? The J&A shippers get too defensive and threatened about it if someone should have the nerve to question a "theory". I wouldn't even give it that much credibility to call it a theory. It's silly speculation, fun but artificially sweetened.
Austin spent weekend in PR and stoped by NC to take care of his garbage
What does that have to do with Austin being in LA on March 23? I'll answer that one. Absolutely, nothing.
You wish.
It tells us that Austin didn't care about spending his free time with Jake before going to Indonesia, he prefered to see PR and didn't hurry home.
^^^ PR = Puerto Rico
Jake is so hot, yet devilishly devious. I wouldn't put it past him that the story he told about the BAFTAS was actually a secret shout-out to Austin, as Austin watched the show from Jake's dressing room.
I wouldn't put it past him either. Did you see the way Jake really cracked up when Kimmel said, "Maybe I'll get you're boyfriend to tie it up for me." I can see Jake loving Kimmel for bringing up the elephant in the room. Or, should I say, "the dressing room?" :-)
Jake was drinking before his Kimmel interview, that would exlain the redness. There is proof of this if him playing bartender.
The loons saw it to and only owned up to it when it was pointed out that he was seen briefly on camera.
They never mentioned it hoping no one else saw it again they are choosing to see only what they want.
I bet they even sent ted this info so he can do another TT BI.
IDK, I prefer not to live my life looking for hidden meanings and symbols and constantly analyzing what people are saying. They either say what they mean at face value or not. :(
Jake told Kimmel that Austin would be there. It's called making discreet arrangements beforehand. It's done all the time.
That's bullshit.
Celebrities don't take their secret bf/gf to talk shows all the time, why would they?
Austin had to pack up to leave NC. Who knows about Puerto Rico. Maybe he was there. Maybe he wasn't. With these guys, it's a lot of smoke and mirrors.
Regardless, of where Austin was the weekend of March 19th, we do know he was in LA on Wednesday. And, that is what people are discussing.
Celebrities don't take their secret bf/gf to talk shows all the time, why would they?
Of course they do. Tiger Woods anyone? People just know not to talk about it. You really do need to get out more.
Jake told Kimmel that Austin would be there.
Jake admitted he's gay to Kimmel???
That whole tie story was BS, do you really beleve a grown man of 25 (his age at the time) doesn't know how to do his own tie?
He made up the story, not the part about David his friend because he was there but the rest. He did it to try and expalin the gay rumors and blame them on BBM.
The whole story was rehearsed, fake. Jake was a bit tipsey and flustered I bet and that's why he kept babbling about Kimmels tie and then he made that crack
You loons know that jake was trying to explain the gay rumors and his story was a lie
You really do need to get out more.
You really need to stop making up bullshit. Celebrities don't take their secret lovers to talk shows, they can stay away from them for 2 hours and can have sex with them in other public places if that's what they like.
Celebities have relationships they keep from the public and gay men, in particular, take their boyfriends places in Hollywood all the time. People in the business know not to talk about these things.
Kimmel even arranged some temp nannies to look after the dozen BT's
12:30 jake is in the closet, so no. I don't care what host knows, people behind the scenes would gossip.
The loons are just pissed that Austinis in Indonesia so they spun the 2 seconds that he was in L.A. to create fanfic about a fuck fest based on Jakes redneck and face.
Meanwhile he was sen playing bartender before the interview, most likely he drank.
Poor loons.
You really need to stop making up bullshit. Celebrities don't take their secret lovers to talk shows, they can stay away from them for 2 hours and can have sex with them in other public places if that's what they like.
You're the one with the bullshit. Certainly closeted actors take their boyfriends places, including talk shows. Do you really think all these gay actors in the closet never have dinner or go to events with their fellas? Now, who's acting stupid.
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